OKay. A lot of you Know.......

I'm glad you are feeling better, and things seem to be going well for you. I wish I had all that to come home to.

My boyfriend and I live with his mom, who still cleans his room for him.... I love the fact that moms are so willing to help, but how much is too much? He is 25... had 1 real job and his mom does everything for him.... Now that I moved in... I try to help her out by doing our laundry and our dishes and cooking as many of our meals as I can. I was working and It was very nice to come home and everything be taken care of, but when I lost my job, I just couldn't handle it anymore. she does everything for him and he is a grown man and can do nothing for himself. I'm suprised at times that he can feed and dress himself.... He has a broke ankle right now and we do kind of have to help him dress and things, but she was even going to give him a bath.... I mean come on!!!! He wanted me to do that of course. He don't like that kind of treatment, but his mother seems to think that this is normal... Am I wrong or is she going just a bit over board. I agree that it is nice to have the things done, but I think some of the mothers enable the men to behave this way. His certainly does.