What do you look for in a partner...?

Honesty and being faithful are at the top of my list. I found most all of what I was looking for when I found my Hubby. We're honest with each other and faithful to each other. We can talk about anything and everything. We share the same views on most things and he is definately protective of me even with my own family. It doesn't matter how either of us looks (which is good since we're both getting older) and we love each other in spite of our flaws. He's smart and funny and makes me feel special. I really did get lucky in finding him. [b]MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! ~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG AND TRUST IN GOD**[/b]

Well, I need someone who can truly accept and love me for what and who I am. Someone that I can depend on when times are tough. Someone who loves his family and most of all I want someone who is God-fearing...

I was looking for one that was a believer of God and the same values as me. A kind gentle man. One who is a manly man with muscles and good health. With compassion for others and children. One that could support me when I am up or down. One that loves me for who I am and never tries to change me. One that comliments things that I can or try to do. Like my "other" half. One that will let me love him with all my heart and never step on it. I do believe that there is one out there for eveyone cuz I did find mine and very happy and glad that I met him. I feel greatful that I am his wife.

Hello,Laydee! I like the romanticism in my wife so that we can enjoy our conjugal life for ever.thanx,

I can say that we have similarities in what we are looking for a partner. I am not also hoping for a perfect partner because I know that such kinds do not exist. All I want is just a partner who will love me as I am.Someone who will be honest to me even how many women line up in front of him.Someone who will not be ashame to hold my hands in front of many people.Someone who will still love me despite of my flaws.Someone who will not change his love for me even if I grow old.Someone who can understand my attitude. Someone who will help me out in times of problems. Someone who will not leave me no matter what.I just want a real person as my partner. He may not be that handsome. He may not be that rich. He may not be that intelligent. He may be just ordinary man.But I can say that even he is not that perfect, if he really loves me, then that thing is enough for me to be satisfied.

i love to meet someone i can leAN ON...i could really talk to not only a as a lover but as well as a friend... a guy who's not boring to be with.... a guy that will truly love me...coz i once hurt by someone i loved before.... someone who's educated and matured enough... someone who will care for me until the tym we grow old.... someone who will love me besides of my imperfections...

First and foremostly I look for a connection. I've found it a few times, and only once of the intensity that consumed me the most. But that connection, that attraction factor, is not enough. I look for someone I can laugh with, someone who will fight battles with me (I don't mean we should argue, I mean I have causes and I occasionally find myself at odds with some bad guys...someone to fight alongside me, someone who has my back like I have theirs)...someone who'll let me protect them so that I feel less like refusing letting them protect me. For someone intelligent. They don't have to be my level intelligence (though that would thrill me more than I can articulate), but they must at least have SOME sort of intelligence, common sense. Someone who loves me for who I am and someone I can love all of who they are for (which is easier for me than I'd like to admit). That's all I want. I don't expect perfection..in fact, I tend to want my partners to be as messed up as I am, though it's not a must. They can be less responsible than me -- people joke I'm responsible enough for ten of me, after all. Different than me's good too, because I'm interested in everything...and can't do or be everything. In fact, the more different the person is, the more I'm likely to find them beautiful (since physical stuff's always the last thing I ever think about xD). No gender preference on my end either. I just want someone who will share their soul with me and who I can share my soul with. To have that kind of mutual and almost complete understanding that only comes with time. Like I said, I've found it at least once before. SOMETIMES I wonder if he was the only one with that intense of a connection with me...but I'm sure that if I've someone I'll live the rest of my life with, we'll find eachother. I stay laid back about it, because it's a touchy subject. If he was the only one, then the fact of the distance...the miles and the distance between our hearts now, is truly more tragic than I've believed. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. If I find this again, I will fight for it...to keep it this time 'round. I'll vow not to fail like last time.

I want someone who can protect me, who will be very proud of me and accept me despite of my shortcomings. Somebody who is a good provider and does not smoke. I really hate smoking. Somebody who has a great sense of humor and has a stable job.