Frustrated again
By cefaz_21
@cefaz_21 (2596)
Philippines
December 9, 2008 4:15am CST
So I had the pregnancy test taken this morning and it's still negative. Imagine how frustrating it is to see that sole pink line. I was praying while doing the test but still I got frustrated.
When was the last time you felt frustrated? What or who caused it?
I hope I feel better tommorow.
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10 responses
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
i will light a candle for your frustration will go away and light one for a wis to have a child. have you seen a doctor regarding this? proffesional can really help a lot for they can teach you what to do. just enjoy being with your partner and soon you will see that you are pregnant. dont just make love because you want to get pregnant but enjoy it because you love each other. smle always and i wish for a speedy pregnancy.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
28 Mar 09
Sorry for my late reply. I wish in this days like this you already got the positive result you wanted eversince. I don't know how to help you with that since I haven't tried to be pregnant since I am single. But what I assured you that ou will always be included in my prayer and I hope it is near, that God will bless you and send you the gift. I know God wants you to be ready for it so he is not giving it now, although its hurts to accept it always have the right time , and He only knows the right time. I think positive for that, I know you will bear a child soon.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
5 Jan 09
Well, maybe you are trying too hard, or just hoping for something that it is either too early to know, or causing it to not happen. But I can relate with your Frustration for sure, just in a different way. The last time I felt totally frustrated was with a situation happening with someone at work who just thought they knew everything, and that eventually ended up getting them fired as well.
And then there is the Frustration in dealing with my family. My sister who is just barely younger than me and I do not get along. Nothing I can do will ever be good enough, or can compare, and so it Frustrates me to no end. It all stems to my Mom dying almost a yr. and a half ago, and many days I feel I will Never talk to her again unless she ever felt a need to come apologize to me first.
@AmbiePam (93883)
• United States
10 Dec 08
I'm sorry. I can't understand fully what you are going through. My sister is going through the same thing. She keeps hoping and praying, but so far she hasn't been able to get pregnant. I'll be praying for you that the frustration will ease and God will give you the desires of your heart.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
5 Jan 09
I'm sorry to hear that you have been disappointed, cefaz. I know how it feels to want something so badly only to have your hopes dashed. The thing to remember is that hope really does spring eternal. It's possible that now just isn't the right time for you. I'm frustrated on a regular basis about one thing or another, but it makes everything so much sweeter when things finally do fall into place like I want.
@carmelsuarez (329)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
awwwww! Its hard for me to tell you hang on because I dont know how you feel. I never had such frustration and dissapointmet yet. But I do believe that God has something good in store for you. I am with you with your dissapointment. And I am praying for you. Please remember that HE knew whats best for us.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
9 Dec 08
The last time I felt frustrated to the point I wanted to kill someone was in mid August. My 86 year old grandmother broke her leg (just under the hip) she refused to have an operation because of all the advice she got from people starting from the cleaner no one cared to ask us or tell us what was going on. I was there on holiday and her whole family is here in Australia. And on top of that they wanted to send her home. I swear I was close to doing something that I was going to regret. And at the same time I found out I was pregnant (about 2-3 weeks at the time) so I was so emotional.
On the subject of pregnancy dont worry it will happen It took husband and me a long time (4 and a half years) and just as I got my self ready to seek help we did it naturaly. When I saw 2 lines (one was so pale it almost did not count) I did 3 more tests and they all showed 2 lines and geting more visable each time. No wonder it was so pale I later found out that I did my 1 test when I was less then 2 weeks pregnant (my period was not even late this time I did it before my period was due) but I knew I was pregnant somehow thats why I did it. I wish you good luck and dont stress. I only got pregnant after I left my busy and stressful life and went on a 3 month long holiday.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
i am married for 6 years now and we have a two year old son.... he will be turning three this coming january. before we hot the jackpot my wife has been to a lot of miscarriages that was really frustrating. going in the hospital and going home without any baby. it hurt my wife the most for it was not just mentally and emotionally but physically too. i was there to support her make sure she feels okay but of course it was still very frustrating. now you can see my son his picture is at my avatar.... it was worth the wait. goodluck to you. keep your hopes high in God's given time it will come.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
im sorry to hear that, better luck next time...
well honestly i was defenitely frustrated when i was in the middle of choosing my own and future carrier i mean the course that i want to take up for college, i want to take up nursing but unluckily my parents did not allow me to take it, because they want me to take up a course that can easily worked so i take up designing even i dont want to...isnt it frustrating?ooooohhhh life....lol
@bellebads (740)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
i got so frustrated and felt so sad when i had miscarriage 4 months ago. we've been longing to have a baby because my husband and i been married for almost 3 years so for us it's about time to have one. we've been trying and yet there's still no good results whatsoever. i will just keep praying until god finally hear my prayers.