To be a Lover Or a Loved One
By awissa
@awissa (69)
Morocco
December 9, 2008 6:52am CST
what do you think is better in a relationship, to be in love with some one who is not really in love with you , Or , to be loved with someone that you don't necessarily in love with ? and tell me why
1 response
@singh007divya (86)
• India
9 Dec 08
you can't love someone if he doesn't love you,...while if someone loves you u should gointo that relation because he will love you you so much that you will fall in love with him, or he will induce you to fall in love with him......believe me if u are of the second type life is really going to be heaven, and its a blessing to have one lover rather than keep burning underneath that the person whom you love never turns up towards you ...itz my preference
@awissa (69)
• Morocco
9 Dec 08
you right, but sometimes , even the person really love you, you just can't see it more than a friend. and in the oppsite, (that's my case) you're loving a person so much , and he knows that very well, but he simply keep living , without any interest ! i mean , he's not doing any efforts to be with you .
@singh007divya (86)
• India
9 Dec 08
hey awissa
This is what life is....its a great learning experience
u here learn everyday, believe love is nothing so depressing abt i have always failed in love,....but it was really very easy to overcme, i rather used my this failure to make my very own self useful,....u have to bring about a bit of change in ur current mindset, try to be a bit graceful to this another person, I don't know what makes you feel so much abt whom u luv n who doesn't luv you, why lose ur life for such a mean person..........afterall u too have some importance, believe me love is nothing in the world it is just a feeling in our mind, as easy to change as any other feeling
i am passing thru some similar phase n m enjoying this new person, he will do anything for me
