How Many Friends Do You Have On MyLot?
By singlemommy
@singlemommy (2955)
United States
17 responses
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
10 Dec 08
Well, I just sent you a friend request so I hope you make me lucky number 13! Welcome to MyLot! I know you will enjoy it, I know I sure do! Have a great day and Happy MyLotting!
@CRSunrise (2981)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I have almost 3 pages of friends now. That makes almost 90. I might hit the double digits here eventually. Wouldn't that be so cool?
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
10 Dec 08
At the present time I have 49 friends but some of them are not active at the present time. As I accept friends on the basis of their discussions and responses I am happy with the ones I have. Even though a number of my friends are from when I joined and they are no longer active here, I will not be deleting them.
My thinking is that sometimes things come up in our lives and we cannot always get online to myLot. That in fact happened to me and it could very well be the same situation for other members who are friends. If a person was suitable as a friend when I accepted them that situation has not really changed, despite their activity or otherwise.
The only reasons I can think that I would delete a friend was if they spammed me by pm with stuff I did not ask for. Of if someone became abusive and threatening in their discussions or responses to others. Or finally if I found that the actual type of discussion changed which made it impossible for me to respond to any of their posts.
For me the friends I have here are about interaction and responding to discussions that appeal to me. How on earth do people who have a huge list of friends ever find time to respond to all the discussions?
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
16 Jan 09
In general we have to allow for the fact that sometimes members, including ourselves, have things happening in their life which means myLot has to take a back seat for a while. It has happened to me more than once and I expect it will do so again for as long as I have my current job.
Thanks for giving me best response for this discussion.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
10 Dec 08
I have to agree with you. Sometimes things do happen in our lives and we are unable to get online. Why not give our friends the benefit of the doubt, right? Thanks for the comment. Happy MyLotting!
@bfarrier1 (2082)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I have 53 but most of them arent active anymore,I really dont want to have as many as you have because I wouldnt be able to keep up although I think you probably make more if you have more friends but I would rather get to know the one's I have as to make more money.You have a great night.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
20 Jan 09
That is a wonderful way to look at it. I've enjoyed having you as my friend here. I love reading your responses. There are a few of my friends that when I post a discussion, I can't wait to see what they have to say in response and I must say that you are one of the few that I can't wait to see respond! Thanks so much!
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
20 Jan 09
I have no idea now since I've been eliminationg ones that are banned or changed accounts or haven't been active for over 3 months..
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@LuckyLadyD (359)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Hi singlemommy, and thank you for your discussion.
As you know, I'm new to mylot, as such, I have the huge grand total of 6 friends.
So.....I guess there are 159,021 people who don't know I even exist, and quite frankly, I don't think they even care.
@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Well I care! And I am very happy to be one of the six friends that you have here on MyLot. You bring a lot of great things to my discussions! Thanks for being my friend!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
10 Dec 08
Personally, I am not sure how many I have. I know a lot of the time, I do not add someone here as a Friend anymore unless they are going to be an active member in here as well. But anyone here is Welcome to be a New friend and all I know, is I have a lot of friends, and some are quite active here, while others are not. This site can be interesting in giving us a chance to earn extra money, make New friends and have Fun as well.
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@mummyofthree (2715)
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19 Jan 09
I have only aroound 60. Not sure without looking!
Wow you have quite a few!
Do you find that you get more responses to discussions that way?
Do you accept everyone as a friend or do you have criteria to help you pick?
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@pweety_princess (2012)
• Australia
10 Dec 08
I add people now and then, but most of the time they just add me. I have 72 friends altogether, I know it's not alot compared to yours, but hey, it's 72. :)
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@theembittered (1025)
• United States
10 Dec 08
I have very few friends in mylot because only got three or four weeks and the truth I have not had enough time to add many people but little by little i will go adding and knowing a lot more people and doing more and more friends! if you want you can add me in to your friends and i can comment your discussions ;), I see you have so many friends:) How long does you have here in my lot?
Well have a nice day and hope you will have a very good week ;) see you soon and bye bye.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
10 Dec 08
I have 263 friends here on myLot. I still have my very first friend on my friends list even though her account got banned. I have not deleted her yet. She did rejoin under a different user name, but she has not really been active on that one.
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I have no idea maybe 10. I get a few requests but as I've said on other posts I don't see the point in having alot of friends on here especially if I don't know them or do not know their posting styles.
As I can relate to you OP though I'm not single I'm a mommy and I don't always have the confidence in things as I should & I like reading your posts.