Straight or gay?
@keelymcilwain (797)
Canada
December 10, 2008 12:16am CST
Are you in a straight or gay relationship? I have many gay friends so don't get me wrong at all in this. I support the gays, if your happy I'm happy. Recently a friend of mine who has been "straight" since high school has turned a new corner in her life. She has a 5 year old son who she loves dearly and for the last few years has been living with a guy. Well out of no where she now has a girl friend. I was in town the other day and I went to visit her and meet this new lady. Turns out she is another old pal from high school. I never would have thought of her to turn this way but I am very happy that she has finally found someone who completes her and her son's life. I hope the best for them and anyone who is in a gay relationship. Over the years and troubles with boys I always thought I might turn to woman for the love and comfort that you would get from a man. But I never got to the point where I needed to or ever really wanted to. I am happy in a straight relationship but it is possible that if this doesn't work, if the next person I meet and fall in love with is a girl it might just happen that I turn gay. What about you? Are you in a gay relationship? Would you turn gay after your present lover leaves? Is that a option for you?
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 08
LOL. I am not in both relationship. I am in a lesbian relationship, what about that? :) I used to have boyfriends before, but I don't think it's interest me because all relationship I had were never lasr longer than 3 months. With this special girl, I had 2 years of relationship and still counting. I think it is not because of the failure of the past relationship. The reason of failure itself is the uncomfortable feeling I got when I was with guy. For me, being lesbian is not an option, it is me, so even I don't close the possibility of having relationship with guys, I am happy with me and my partner now :)
I am glad that you are not being narrow minded, and that's good to open any possibilities. But don't force yourself being a lesbian if you're not. Even lesbians would accept the heterosexuals as their friends as long they accept us the way we are
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@loverboy1boy (186)
• India
10 Dec 08
I am a straight relationship and i believe in it.I think gay or lesbian is a not good for our social health.When gay or lesbian relationship are increase it posses many problem and it is against of nature also.
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@samselvarajk (260)
• India
10 Dec 08
i am in a straight relationship....noway i will turn gay...even my lover leaves...
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
10 Dec 08
I am straight. I am not a homophobic person though. I have a couple of friends who are gay. They know I am straight, and they respect that, so I have no problem with them. I am not sure how I would react if a gay guy tried to flirt or hit on me. I have never had it happen, but I am pretty sure that all I would do is let them know nicely that I am not gay, and that I am married...as long as all they did was flirt. If the dude tried to touch me or something, though, I would probably hit him. LOL I guess I don't look gay at all (or I must be ugly LOL), though, because as I said, I have never been approached by a gay guy...
@elmer0421 (432)
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22 Mar 22
I am gay and I am not in a relationship but hopefully I will get to find a man who will accept me as I am...
