Only 30%

China
December 10, 2008 2:16am CST
I make a boyfriend just one year, we only meet at the weekend from this year. He lived in his dorm, I live in my dorm. He doesn't like to be alone, I give him free. He hope to have their own space, I give him space. He ineffable, I try not to mention. He likes, I forced followed. He thinks that, like this weekend, if every couple well fed together will feel bored, even after marriage can maintain the best condition, after all, everyone has their own space.... He thinks, before the wedding, I most in his heart only 30%, and other 70% in his family's work, his private time,but he promised not outside to stir up things, even after marriage, most of my to 50%.... But, I 100% for him... I was very sad, please give first opinion! Thank you !
2 responses
Low333333
@Low333333 (223)
• China
10 Dec 08
oh, you re new here and i think you are a chinese girl~me too.from your story,i can see them. i think your BF is right than wrong.i am also a boy but no girlfriends.even thouth like this ,i know i should study well and get a good job to earn money,for my love and my family.i think if you get married,try not put 100%on him.e veryone need some time to be alone or with his friends and brothers.that is nomal i think. love is just one of coulour in life not full.there may be more intereting things besides love betweent lovers. oh sorry for my poor english. long time away from english. hope you get thought it soon .have a good time`~try to be happier
liangchenjian
@liangchenjian (54)
• China
10 Dec 08
yes,I'm a chinese girl. you isn't a girl, you can't understand. I want to ask you, if all the man like the work than love?
Low333333
@Low333333 (223)
• China
12 Dec 08
you should know if he do work much than love,he may be a little poor.he do work hard because he want to live better with you after married.you know money is a love base.no money no happness.however if he dont love you,he may be not do like this or do not for you.I think he is a good man.you should understand better than blame him.
smacksman
@smacksman (6053)
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10 Dec 08
Welcome to Mylot, I hope you have a lot of fun here. There is a time for work and a time for play. As a man who wants to be responsible for you and his family, your boyfriend must concentrate on his work for a lot of the day. Only that way will he be able to support you. You also will have a lot of work to concentrate on - your job, your home and later, your children. You may end up more serious about work than your man! haha I hope it works out for you both.