Whose company do u often prefer??? Urself or others????

Loneliness - Show me the meaning of being lonely
India
December 10, 2008 9:20am CST
Do u like to be alone most of the time or do u luv being wit ppl around u??? Most of the times, i luv being around wit ppl... But i feel everybody definitely needs their own private space.. Time to think for themselves all by themself... Its nice to be alone in my own world at times and its fun too!!!! Wat do u guys think????
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9 responses
• India
25 Apr 09
I would like to be with my frds whenever its possible. If u have someone to talk with then i think there is no possibility for u to think abt the worries. But u need a real one with whom u can feel comfortable.
@cuttyrish (2667)
• United States
30 Dec 08
i love to be around people, too especially my friends.. but sometimes i like to be alone, to think about things like life, me, and etc.. as in as much as i enjoy talking or hanging out with other people, i also like to hangout with myself by pampering myself, making sure i feel good about myself.. i also like to talk to myself sometimes, (not in a crazy way), but more in positive ways...if i am alone, i could be myself, but if we around other people, we have our limitations...
• Malaysia
11 Dec 08
hi daring_diosa, for most of the time I prefer most to be with people and my best friend. Sometimes I really need my own time and space. But I have one friend who is sort of carbon copy of me around 95%. When I need that lonely time for me to breath in ease for sure I'll be that lonely but in the same time I still miss my best friend a lot. Well, that's my own opinion and thanks for coming with this nice topic.
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 08
Same as you, I love to be around with many people, as it's more happening and having more fun when we are communicating with others, and discussing work with others. But, sometimes being alone in the office makes me feel really comfortable too, I can concentrate on my work better, as there is no disturbance from others.
• United States
10 Dec 08
Although my work as a teacher requires me to be extremely sociable, I'm really something of a hermit. I like to be alone most of the time. I don't even like talking on the phone. I just don't know why I like myLot so much, unless it's just that there's a level of distance, and I only go to the Lot when I want to. It's a great way to take a break from grading papers or cleaning the house, or even writing.
• United States
12 Dec 08
I used to be a person who could not stand to be alone. I absolutly hated being by myself but I have changed. I prefer few to no people around most of the time. I went from being a social butterfly who would talk to a perfect stranger to a person who is a loner and often avoids people I know in crowds for fear if I speak a long conversation will come about. What happened to me? I have no idea all I know is I am no longer the friendly people person I once was. Close friends and family is about all I really make an effort to hang around with these days.
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
10 Dec 08
I love people but I definitely need my solitude! My nerves get racked when I don't have enough alone time. It's hard to find when you live in a house with five other people, but most days they are all at work or school until late afternoon. So most days I have plenty of solitude by then and am ready to have some company!
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
i love chit chatting and i love being with my friends. but most of the time i do only appreciate being alone and i do find peace with myself cause that is the time i can reflect on things...
• India
10 Dec 08
I believe the best company that you can have is yourself...it will not betray you,ditch you,it will always be available when you want it to be....now let us see why do we need company of others...this may be beacuse we need to communicate with someone other than us..(remember mr.wilson of CastAway)...we want to let someone know about our thoughts and feelings and get their appreciation and views...we want to get intimate with someone so that emotionally we get satisfied...