When do you Choose??

hi. i want with you this text message that I got from a friend. It says, If your head tells you one and your heart tells you another, before you decide anything, decide first whether you have a better head or a better heart. hope that helps. good luck to you.

hi lost4eva..i actually not quite understand wat u're asking, but i hope im right.. i cant tell u wat to do lost4eva, coz im having a similar situation with u, im stuck with this guy that still acting like a boy, n never grown up till now..i love him so much for his other side, but i also dont like it if he keep running away from his responsibility to finish his study, get a job, n get a life on his own..he keep running away from it, n i hate it..my friends keep telling me to leave him alone so he got his lesson n grown up a little, but ufff..eventho he keep hurting me with his lazyness, i dont know why i still cant leave him.. im still trying to separate my priority between heart n mind..coz its about my future, i cant just stuck to a guy that cant build a life together with me, nor even try it..

I think a lot about literally everything. Sometimes, i think all these thinking is wearing me out, day-by-day. As a matter of fact, i begin thinking the second i wake up from bed, which is pretty... you know... that pressuring. But at times when thinking doesn't help in very trying situations, and it really gives you a headache (for real, that you really need a pill), i'll just stop everything for a moment, and listen and follow my heart. And surprisingly, it always help!! As for you, if you really feel that you can't worm your way out by thinking mentally, then, go ahead, follow your heart, listen to it. Do what comes up in your mind first.

hi there. hmm what you need to do it to have a quiet time with God. ask for His guidance. just have patience on waiting for His answers. Surely, He is preparing the best for you, may it be in the place you are right now or in abroad. God bless.

hai my friend... first b calm down... dont run away from the situation... anyhow its ur life,tackle the situation with the help of ur mind power ..somtimes our heart get so emotional 2 handle the matter and left us in unsolved problem.. so tink what is good and wise for all.. i alwas hear my mind not heart.. hav a nice life time..

oh well..I follow my head most of the time. because... *sigh* my instincts are wrong most of the time ):

Long walks by myself help me make tough decisions. Over time you will know what the right decision is if you listen to heart and make the decision by yourself.

I think I'll just think first just be alone for a while. TO think more what's really best. It takes a thousand times sometimes to decide, especially when your always hurt and the pain is still there. When things are always the same nothing change I think you have to think about what really what you want for yourself first. It's not splitting up or loosing that someone. It's only time4 that can answer your question, will you use your heart or head. You can think clearly when your alone.When your so in your blinded by your feelings and emotions, I think also you have to use both weigh things first. If it's really for you sometimes it just happens. Time solve by it self. Have a nice day to you!

i've been in the same situation as you are befor my head or my heart. Instead I come up with this idea that will follow my head but somehow tolerate my heart. I'll stay in love with this guy, be the best that I can be for him, but then there will be a spand of time, if until then I still feel the same "unpreciated" then I have to let go. It's really all up to you, all we can do is advise up. hope you'll find your answer.

I have found that when both my head and my heart agree, it is the right thing to do. Other thatn that, when they do not agree, I tend to really think about the desicion at hand and explore the pros and cons, and think of how the decision can effect my future before I decide.

i think for the past few years i wont respond to any body and also any thi but after i crossed ma teen age i started to realise my self and came to learn more abt ma future plans and also ma life which i have to face.......now to say in frank i'm on the right way listenin to ma mind voice for ma suggestions and ma heart for expressin ma love towards everyone.....

i think i follow the heart. i believe in my stats and live it. i have good plans where to go and when to go and what to do? i think positively. hope for the best. rest will follow me, even if it is good or bad it's all mine alone no one to share the happiness or sorrow .

for me to have a relationship you need to use both your head and heart but head must role our heart so that if we got hurt we can easily move out from it.

The is a saying in Chinese "Following the heart is the right choice!"All of us seek the free life because of our heart is beating!However,the life is usually not what your heart thinks,most time ,it is hard and make you upset!Sometime we force ourself to follow the head because we have no choice! Sorry,I feel so much about this topic and my brain is complicated....... Just do what you want and never regret,lost4eva!By the way,Never lost next time.