...rainbow people...????
@kidlatventura (11)
Philippines
December 11, 2008 12:32pm CST
...more than two decades of my life,i considered myself as gay...
...a gay that ironic to its meaning...
...but there's no one who become a hindrance for me to be who i am now...
...i became outcast for so many years by my love ones yet i take the risks...
...now if you'll be in a position that you'll be choosing your true identity over your family would you take the risks???....why???and why not???...by the way behind my tears i have a wonderful adopted son now and i'm living with my understang better-half...
2 responses
@smacksman (6053)
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11 Dec 08
Society still has trouble accepting lesbians so I can understand your problems. You will just have to make the best of it and thank your lucky stars you have a good man to be with you.
It sounds to me that you have a lot more than many gays and a lot to be thankful for. Good luck.
@Marie5656 (336)
• United States
11 Dec 08
You need to do what is right for YOU, not for your family or friends. Being gay is not a choice, though some will have you believing that. You can live apart from friends or family if you need to, you cannot live apart from yourself.
A word of advice, you need to be honest and up front with your son. In words he can understand (you do not mention his age) you need to explain what being gay means. That it is not a bad thing. That it does not automatically mean he will or will not be gay. He will know. I hate when people try to hide reality from children. It is not fair to them.
