...please help me out???...a parent cries...
@kidlatventura (11)
Philippines
December 11, 2008 1:38pm CST
...watching television,playing with dyno ( home puppy ),munching kokokrunch,chewing lots of lots of bubblegums...
...here are some of the things that my son loves to do each and every minute of the day...
...he loves running around in circles...he wanders about a lot of things...he enjoys the company of his neighbor friends...
...but i know in his young and innocent mind he questions why he has two moms without a dad...a sad part of the story...
...please help me out how to explain this matter to my only boy...apparently i often see this big big question mark in his hazel-browned eyes...
...kindly share your advises to me...( a gay parent )
...thanks in advance...
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@Thumper11 (662)
• United States
11 Dec 08
This is a hard one... I am not a parent, so I'm not sure if this will help or not... I think I would explain that in a family 2 parents love their children very much.... in that definition... you are a family... right? Then I would say, if he asks about a father, that years ago it used to be that there was a mother and a father and children,,,that was the family, but since times have changed..... now children can have 2 mommies.... Maybe there is a friend who could take up the role of father figure for him? I would recommend that...... If not... maybe an uncle or grandpa.... cause he's gonna need advice from a man one day.... he needs to at least have the option of a male figure to turn to...... But I would just explain it that he does have 2 parents that love him... and that's what a family is.... I hope that at least gave you an idea of how to approach this.....
@kidlatventura (11)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
hi Thumper11
...thank you so much for the advice that you just posted...
...somehow you gave me an idea how things would work couple of years from now with my kid...
...have a blessed day to you and for your family...
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