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If I were you, I will date her out, and chat with her tell my feelings.I will make her know I miss her very much and very cherish the friendship. If you have done this,she doesn't care , then I will give up the relations soon, and make me forget this unhappy friendship. I don't know what's your opinion,it's just my point. Hope can good for you and your relations.

Hey mama, Writing a letter or email is often the best way, but if you wrote a letter before then maybe you should try calling her. The only problem in calling is that she may not listen to what you have to say, where if you email her, she's more likely to read the whole email and react better. Maybe send an email and then a couple days later call her. I'm sure she misses you as much as you miss her. Good luck sweetie. I hope it all works out.xoxoxo leenie

If this person lives around you, I would suggest you go visit in person and tell her how you feel. This way she knows you are serious about the relationship. If she is not willing to move on, then at least you have "closure" and are not wondering about it. If she does not live close, call her and talk to her. Sending e-mail/postal mail is so insincere, I wouldn't suggest that route unless it could be avoided. If you do go with mail, do postal mail and send a "miss you" kinda card. Good luck!!

If I were in your situation, I would definitely make another attempt to contact my friend. Friendships and relationships are a messy business! We hurt people's feelings and they hurt ours. This is just how life works sometimes. Usually over time hurt feelings heal and we are free to move on in our relationship. However, sometimes time passes and those hurt feelings are not addressed and then we are afraid to approach the situation again. With that being said, I would definitely try to make contact with my friend again. Either by writing an e-mail, or leave and a phone message. As others have said, the "ball" is then in her court. The next move will be up to her. You have taken the initiative to open the lines of communication, the choice is now up to her, as to whether she's willing to work on your relationship. If she does not respond, it will be up to you, to then deal with your own feelings about the relationship, and then to let go so you will be free for other friendships. For me at least, it would be important not to focus so much on the why's or the what ifs. It will all be just guessing anyway, and you will never know the answers. Also, you say that it is your fault that you had an argument in the first place. Even if this is true, try not to take too much responsibility. Relationships are a two way street and we all make mistakes. You are doing all that she can to say " I'm sorry, I was wrong. I miss you, and I want us to have a relationship again." How she responds is her choice. In the end, our relationship can only be worked on and repaired if each person is willing. If she is not, you must deal with your hurt feelings and move on because as you already pointed out, life is just too short. Take care my friend, and good luck to you.

If it were me, I would call her! Confront your fears! She may or may not respond or respond the way you want, but at least you made the move. Sometimes we have to be the strong ones! You'll never know unless you try! Call her and then the ball is in her court! Rhonda

I have a friend that this happened to with her and I. But it was her that made the bad move after she never really has gotten in touch with me. But i would love for her to try and contact me. could it just be possible that your friend never got the letter you sent if you did send one? I would try at lest one more time and see what happens. If you were really close friends she will forgive and forget and all will be well. Keep us informed