Do young generation really like live with parents after their marraige?
By vasanthmbe
@vasanthmbe (27)
India
2 responses
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
For me, i would prefer that after marriage, my own family has to be separated from my parents as well as from my husband's parents. It is different that we have to build our own family independently from our parents.
Establishing your own family must be created solely by the husband and wife, only with the support of the parents. Your own family must try to stand on their own without depending much to the parents. It may be true that there should be togetherness and attachment with our parents, however, when we set our minds that we have parents to depend on, we would always be reliable to them and we tend to forget to stand on our own.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
12 Dec 08
I realize that there are people that are still living with their parents. Maybe for personal reasons or financial problems.
It is good in some cases where the family can be interdependent and help one another out in times of trouble.
The problem comes in when some people in a family might not give their help the way they should.
Everyone should chip in to the house work or helping with earning their keep by paying bills and the like
I think that situations like people living with parents after marriage especially those that are young can be a bit of a frustration.
It can't be easy with a young married couple that need their privacy and quiet time together.
In some cases I am not sure that it is good practice to combine families in this manner.
Married people need to get off on their own and still support their parents and family while living elsewhere.
There can always be love and caring whether the families all live together or apart. As long as their is appreciation and caring things should always have a way of working out.
Take care.
If the young couple live close by that can even help more.