lover who betrays
By dr_sans
@dr_sans (59)
India
December 12, 2008 1:36pm CST
i want to tell u a small story,
i had a friend who has a gir friend since 8 years,they decided to marry.they went on a trip to malasia to a friend house.there he left her in home and got out for shopping for her.the tour ended they are leaving to thier native place.then his friend said a sentence that breaked his hear and now he is under care of a psychiatrist.the sentence was "hey ur girlfriend is very coperative ,we enjoyed a lot together ,in ur absense".what to do with these kind of friends
3 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 08
hi dr sans ...
for this the guy is going tru psychiatrist ... he must have been the weakest man ... what will he do if he found out he was adoped, kill himself ???
I do not know the actual story from what you have said ... if my husbands friend said, i was co-operative, my husband will never think it sexually at all because ... i am a professional working class woman with a lot of knowledge and use my brains ...
If the girls actually did have so call "affair" with this guy, it is good for your friend to find out before they were married and ... the guy under psychiatrist care for this is really unbelieveable ?
If it is just the wild imagination of your friend then, I guess the girl should consider herself lucky if your freind actually left her ....
By the way it is spelled MALAYSIA
cheers
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 08
dr sans ..
read the extension as well ... i have seen people madly in love with someone and going tru hell when separated ..
but in this issue ... we wont know what actually happened that drow a girl with 8 year relationship to do this ...
i - A girl will rebel when the boyfriend had an argument with her and walked away, then she whould have felt like revenging him by being with another man
ii - A girl must have been like this all the while and your friend did not know of this until now
iii - A girl finally found freedom from your friend once you are out in another country
iv) - his freind is good at seducing
whichever it is ... just advise your friend, to find a better woman for him
cheers
@maverickwarrior (260)
• India
12 Dec 08
the sentence that you have mentioned looks more to me like a leg puller...i dont think it is right to conclude that the girl was cheating on the boy in his absence on the basis of a single sentence ..he should find out the truth and then he should come to conclusions..
@dr_sans (59)
• India
13 Dec 08
so i want to extend the topic,after conformation of what happened there my friend was upset,he asked the girl,first she refused to answer,then he asked his friend he got the answer.she told the truth after that.and also said that all these matters are common today,grow up and forget that matter .my friend said in my life i thought only u.but u shared ur life with other for a just small attraction,i will give very respect to human ethics, so i want to cancel our marriage,dont show ur face again.is he correct.....
@maverickwarrior (260)
• India
13 Dec 08
I think your friend was in genuine love with this girl, which the girl obviously didnt deserve from him if they had a commited relationship running...
he should ask the girl what she wants from the relationship and did she feel any regret after doing such an horrendous act...if she says she is regretting and promises to never repeat it again...then he could think of giving her a second chance(i would personally not do that :-)),if she says its all casual and no thing serious then surely she is not the girl for a long term relationship or marriage...
@meow1978 (190)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 08
i think it must be a joke. If it is true, the girlfriend and friend must be very cruel. If the have affair, why must tell it out. Just keep it to themselves. Why must they kiss and tell. I feel that, 8 years of dating, both of the couple must be very strong. If the girlfriend do that to him, I think she wants to leave him with a purpose. Maybe she have sickness that can't be cured. So, she just use this way for him to live her without any hassle. Otherwise there is no reason to for doing that which leave a very ugly picture for 3 parties.
