Give me suggetion about my Marriage... Please friends.....
By chandu245
@chandu245 (647)
India
December 13, 2008 4:19am CST
Hi friends, I am 23 years young boy working in a good company. So now my family members were forcing me to marry soon. But i am not interested in that matter because i want to earn more and i want to achieve something in my profession. I don't want to marry now because still im 23 according to me after 28 it's better to marry. So what you think friend?? If now i marry a girl means it will big problem to me because not possible for me to give concentrate on my achievements. So please reply me and help me friends.
5 responses
@murali603 (114)
• India
13 Dec 08
Ya you are correct. The correct age of marriage is 27 or 28. If your parents are forcing you then just try to convince them. You are correct if you marry some girl now then you can't concentrate on the achievements but at the same time it is your responsbility to make parents happy. First you just tell them about your goals and achievements, then they will understand you if they not then agree to marry. After marriage try to concentrate more on the achievements you will get success. Concentration is only depend on our self it won't come form any one and it won't go to any one. If you have desire to success in your path then you will success, the obstacles won't effect you.
Thanking you , Take care of parents.
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@lulumartin (963)
• Germany
15 Dec 08
Hi, chandu. Do you have a girlfriend now? Perhaps your parents really like your girlfriend. If you are not ready for marriage yet, it's better to convince your parents, you know, some parents want their children to get married so that they can have grandchildren soon. 
This happened all the time in the past, but they are still some cases like this nowadays. 
I think it's important for man to have financial fundamental first before marriage. It's also good to have some achievements before getting married so that you can have time on your family in the future.
Anyway, don't worry, i believe your parents can't do anything if you don't want to marry. Cheers and have a nice day!
This happened all the time in the past, but they are still some cases like this nowadays.
I think it's important for man to have financial fundamental first before marriage. It's also good to have some achievements before getting married so that you can have time on your family in the future.
Anyway, don't worry, i believe your parents can't do anything if you don't want to marry. Cheers and have a nice day! 
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
13 Dec 08
Hello,Chandu! Officially you have qualified for marriage but yet you are too young to get in to a married life.Your parents should understand that you are yet to establish yourself in your career.Convince your parents to wait for another five years to finalise your marriage.My motto is first establishment in career then family burden and other things.thanx.
@ankita_gosalia (106)
• India
13 Dec 08
no not that if u will get girl who is fully undestand to u and supporting to u then u will get achivment as u want very early also and mostly girls like the achivment of her husband so she is always ready to stand with her hasband any metter and as a science if u will marry before 25 then that will be good for u after that u can't capable as now to understand any girl properly and u will get some problem that's y.
