attracting the wrong partner ....
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
Malaysia
December 13, 2008 5:50am CST
Why do we always attract the wrong partner .. is it the law of nature , "Opposites Attract " ....
Tru my own experience and most of my friends, i have seen that they are totally different individuals ..
I dont mean this in a bad way only ... most time it is good too ..
One is "Saver" while the other is "Spender"
One is "Emotional" while the other is "Stronger"
One is "Stubborn" while the other is "Give and Take"
Have you wondered ???
cheers
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8 responses
@iamfine (740)
• China
13 Dec 08
It is a funny, I am a girl, and I am kind of a saver, and to be a saver means to be mean, to be stingy, and that's a defect. To find a boy friends who has a lot of money to spend, and would you to spend with him, that's really a compensation for the defect point.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 08
hi iamfine,
actually what you said made me think .. why does it not work this way .. poor man + rich girl or rich girl + poor guy ...
In this context almost everytime we see , poor girl + poor guy, middle class girl + middle class guy , rich gir + rich guy ,
Since i am a normal person, why dont i get a prince, why a prince looks for a royal blood
cheers
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@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 08
hi
i have seen that .. rich girls poor boys, pretty girl ugly boy ... but rarely the other way around
cheers
@Sheldon25 (193)
• Jamaica
13 Dec 08
My feelings is people who attract the wrong partners mainly they pretend what they are not when you find out who they are its a bit too late in most cases. Thats one of the main reasons i believe persons should take time to know each other before jumping into anything serious. Although you have people who dont have a choice they are pressured by parents. Thats my belief thanks.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 08
hi sheldon
i guess you are right .. when we are starting off with a new person, we are normally not ourselves , when we go on date we dress up so well, when we eat .. we eat so politly ..
But once we are married ... we are ourselves ... we dress simple and sometimes hang out in shorts ... we talk and eat
And once we have children ... we become more different as the requirements and our responsibilities change ...
.... is it not sad, that our partner can not accomodate the other half, they still one that beautifully dressed woman, still want that polite talking woman ... when we got no time to look the best
@eshaan (6188)
• India
13 Dec 08
you should say it 'opposite' instead of wrong...no one is wrong firstly to say...God has made everyone, and their qualities also...it happens that different qualities help to carry on relations longer ...like if one is short tempered and the other is having good patience then...there are less chances of fights, as one will stay cool, so it will be resolved. But all depends on how understanding the partners are...if they understand each other well then it doesn't matter if they have same qualities or different.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
14 Dec 08
hi eshaan ... i agree with you , i have stated in my notes that i am not using wrong in a bad context, i ment what you said opposite...
as you said, the short tempered and good patience is good example like it
cheers
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
1 May 11
Any relationship exists both between two objects, or beings is based on magnestist ... because we are bodies with positive energy, negative and then we draw or reject us ....
And yes opposites attract but not last, .... There should be a balance: you attract the other person what you have not, what is new to you, not what you know but you and values ??in common with that person ... .... the idea is to find that person when you take the arms are made to feel like a perfect puzzle.
@Sheldon25 (193)
• Jamaica
13 Dec 08
My feelings is people who attract the wrong partners mainly they pretend what they are not when you find out who they are its a bit too late in most cases. Thats one of the main reasons i believe persons should take time to know each other before jumping into anything serious. Although you have people who dont have a choice they are pressured by parents. Thats my belief thanks.
@metaljunkiechuk (225)
• Belize
14 Dec 08
Well, no individuals are EXACTlY alike, there may be similarities but they cannot have the same personality. Personally and with friends also i've experienced this the 'Opposite Attract' part of nature. I guess its because they have something u don't and being with that someone makes u become in equilibrium or in other ones the characters the other person have completes you. U are a giant gig saw puzzel that needs to be put together and only someone who isnt of your same nature can come and put them together. well thats how i c it.
happy mylotting my lottians :D
