do u afraid that ur girl friend empty ur wallet in shopping

I cant even imagine having all access to my boyfriends wallet, man, what am i doing?? Nah really, I feel like I would love that--occasionally?--but my conscious would just make me feel like Im using him--wouldn't that distance me from my man? If my man cannot be honest (even though i cant lie I would love that) with me then what is there? I've only had access to a mans wallet that I was not in a relationship with, he was just trying to impress me so I let him and there was no promises made. Ok, i used him--see what im saying here?

When I go out for shopping, I use to make a shopping list in my mind for avoiding uneccsary cost. I seldom have those wallet be light problem. You should stick on your own mind and decision not others'.

Unfortunately, not all girls are like that. ehem!

i believe that most men believe that they should pay when it comes down to the moolah...i personnaly dont believe in that concept for me everything is contri..it's always on a sharing basis..in this way neither of you will feel bad beacuse you are paying for yourselves...and remember that nobody can make you pay unless you want to....

I think the best word you need for this is HONESTY. Being open with you GF about money issues will not only help your wallet, but probably put your relationship on the right track. Try being honest with her mate :)