What you do when you are hurt by someone who is very close to your heart???
By dev21lucky
@dev21lucky (341)
India
December 13, 2008 12:18pm CST
I have a problem that I can'tstop myself when somebody commits a mistake,and I just say it directly to that person.One day I pointed out my brother that he should study more to do well in examinations and he just exploded on me and I really felt bad.And I just can't stop myself from thinking about this incidence.Please help me out how to get over this??
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@anurag440044 (414)
• India
13 Dec 08
Well, firstly, get over it man. Bros and sis fight so much these days. That's normal. Secondly, i'll suggest if you have any good or best friend, talk to him / her, and have a little break from your regular routine life. I think that is whats depressing you more that the fact that your brother yelled at you.
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@dev21lucky (341)
• India
13 Dec 08
You are right,I'll talk to my friends about that.I think my brother is upset at the moment and he lso did bad in his last paper.I am concerned more for him that's why it hurt me.I'll talk to him once his exams are over.Thank you for your response.
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@uditpanda (1023)
• India
14 Dec 08
Hello dev2Lucky
I guess u are a very soft hearted person who is very caring about the people surrounding him. U should accept the fact that everybody loves his privacy in life & if u disturb it directly or indirectly they are going to react. So choose the situation wisely where your advice is cared for & the go for it. Also remember those people whom you love most can hurt you the most. Try & get your feelings conveyed to them clearly. May be if they love you the same way ,they will definitely understand your feeling & will amend their words or deeds. If they don't just part your ways & donot interfere in their life till u are asked by them to do so.
Take care
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@jags420 (189)
• India
14 Dec 08
please refine your words. do not speak harsh words even if they are true. just take deep breaths when you are about to unleash the truth on someone. take your time and think how much effect it would have on him. it will then teach you how to speak those lines... all the very best..