If you can choose between your first relationship?

If i had to choose between which relationship i'd like to b n stay in it would be my pervious one. The person was incredible and loving and caring, also understanding, compassionate. I couldn't have asked for a better person but i miss the person very much ):.

Undoubtedly, if I had to choose between past relationships or my current one, I would pick this one. My first relationship, if you can even call it that, was a product of desperation and naivety. It was built on foolery, to top it off. But, I have gained so much from partnering with my current fellow, it'd be regression to give it up.

[i]Hi Kys, wow, that is very sweet! ANyway, this is my first marriage and I am happy and lucky to have my hubby..He is very loving not only to me but also to my Parents and Sister...He is very kind and willing to sacrifice just to give support to my Parents financially...He is the chef in the house and I do all the cleaning..LOL! We have fights a lot but most of it a tease, he is a happy person and very open-minded! I wish we will always be like this and I always pray that to God![/i]

I would have to say my first serious relationship. The man I am with today helps me alot and loves me in his own way, but he has cheated on my over the 21 years we have been together. I do not trust him at all. That is a terrible feeling. I have ms and am disable. If I was 100% healthy I would not be here. I often wonder what my first love is up to. I know that if I stayed with him my finances would be in much better shape. In these days, that is a big concern.

Since, I'm not currently in a relationship I would have to choose between my previous relationships. All of them ended for very different reasons. The truth is, I'm grateful for each of those relationships and do not regret any of them. Each of my past relationships have taught me a lot about myself, and about the things that I want out of a relationship. Because of my previous relationships I think I am also in a better position to define exactly what it is I'm looking for in a partner. Now, that I feel like I know what I want, I believe that when I'm ready to start a new relationship it will be a much healthier one because I know what I want and probably won't be willing to settle for anything less at this point in my life. I think that success in any relationships depends upon how comfortable you are with yourself as a person first before you become part of a couple. That's just my 2¢ worth. Good luck to you, and Happy Mylotting!

I would definitely choose my present relationship. He's far different from my previous relationship. They say that all men are "polygamous", but I don't believe it now. I know there are girls out there that might disapprove with me but it's true. Maybe you have not just found the right guy for you, gals. Just wait for it and it will come to you for sure.

after three failed marriages, all for totally different reasons, i would have to say one i'm in now is the best. we have been together 3 1/2 years, we never argue, he is thoughtful, caring, and helps around the house, just because. it's all the little things he says and does that are so awesome.

I would have to say the relationship I am in now. I look back at my exhusband and wonder what I ever saw in him.

I would most definitely have to choose the one I'm in now. He's not controlling or overly jealous like past boyfriends I've had have been. We actually moved in together recently because we're going to George Mason University together. He's really great and so smart too. I've learned so much from him and we've been through a lot of crazy stuff together. I love him so much.

If I could choose, I should say I have no choice. My wife is my first relationship I am in. Although I am in trouble with her sometimes, I still think she is my best choice.

I would have to say the first relationship I was in. Even though I could not even really call it a relationship, more like friends with benefits. We are not what you can call a somewhat together anymore, but he is still one of my very best friends. We get along so well and I can tell him anything about any topic. He is honest. There are some things that are a little buggy abou him though. He is one of those guys who is the most amazing person in the world on some one on one time, but when he is with his guy friends, he likes to be a very different person.

the one i'm in now, of course! if my first one was better, i wouldn't have gotten out of it...

for me 1 st is the best because 1st chose is from the heart straight away 2nd will chosen after seeing all positives and gains and losses.so 1s is from heart second is form practical life

I think most people would choose their best relationship to be the one they are in now because why would you end a relationship with your past exes that were really good to you and settle for something less than that? If someone is in a relationship that is worse than the other ones, I think it is time to get out.