Are you good at dealing the relationships with foreigners?

@Flouya (283)
India
December 14, 2008 12:25am CST
Hello! i am studying in India now.Although i have make a lot of friends with other countriy's people,i stil feel not as comfortable as i stay with my chinese friends.All of us can speak english,so i consider communication is not such a big obstacle.However,i don't know the why...Actually they are friendly and kind,but sometimes...i don't know how to describe my feeling.Is the culture problem or others?Could can give me some advice?
2 responses
• India
14 Dec 08
It is all depend up on our mentality. Natuarally culture may be a barrier. But it is necessary to preserve our own tradition and culture with out harming others. You can keep distance when there is a difference at a particular ponit and mingle where there is agreement in other things. For example whenever, I have to participate in a dinner arranged by my friends, I will not join them for drinking. Instead I will take ice-cream or other beverages which are not intoxicative. Like wise during dinner I will take only vegeterian stuff. This will not harm other participants.
@Flouya (283)
• India
14 Dec 08
It's a good way to keep a active mentality.Do what i want to do and respect others,it's a good idea?By the way,i'm so confused that why there so many vegeterians in India?
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
14 Dec 08
well some country are friendly indeed.... some are not so friendly... some of my countrymen tells me that chinese when they visits the china or hongkong they been saying bad words about filipino.... especially in women.... its up to you who you want to make friends with...