Get married? When?

China
December 14, 2008 3:53am CST
I am just curious about which age is just suitable to someone to get married. I did not get married and my plan is to get married when I am 28. I have asked some of my friends the same question and most of them have the same idea with me. Then, what's your opinion, my friend? I know there's a age limitation to marriage in every country, and the limitation may not all the same. But that's ok, what I want to know is what's in your mind. Thanks for sharing.
7 responses
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
It is really not about the age but the maturity that a person has which matters most when deciding to get married. There are people who are old but have the maturity of an 18 year old. Priorities are also a consideration when a person decides to get married. Those who want to have a more stable life for their future family would tend to marry at a later age when they are already settled with their careers and has enough money to sustain a better future for their family. While those who really want to raise kids tend to marry at a much younger age. It is easier to have children when you are younger than when you are older. Still, what is important in any marriages is that it is founded by love and the couples will try their best to work hard to make the marriage work.
• China
15 Dec 08
may i just give you a honest advice: do not make any rule for your marriage.i think you should marry your MR right as soon as he comes to your eyes .as you know that people usualy miss the true lover who should get marry with just because some little things ,such as age , nation or bloodvine etc. for me ,i dont care about that ,if i love somebody ,i will get marry with her .before in china most of young people get married when they are 26 years old .but now more and more people get married around 30 years old .i think the reason is that people want to work more and save more money .i guess that ........so do not miss your only one .i wish you a perfect wedding..........
@Galena (9110)
14 Dec 08
the right age to marry can fall any time in your life. it's when you're in a stable, loving and happy relationship, and you both want to be married.
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
14 Dec 08
I just got married last January and I turned 28 last September. When I was young, I wanted to get married at the age of 24 but obviously, I passed that age still single. I think I got married on the right age. I was matured enough and had a stable career that time. Well, I think nowadays, more people want to get married on their late 20s or early 30sbecause they are more career minded. I think that thereis no age limit for getting married.
@vanonas (949)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I think I want to be married when I'm 24. Reason being my mother was married to my father when she was 24 and it seems like a good age to be married to someone. Hopefully I will be financially stable and done with college and have a career so that I'll be able to support myself and husband (not just me, he will have a career also)
• China
15 Dec 08
yup,i have consider about this problem,and my reason is up to 26. i think this is depend on the finacial situation of the two ,if you have the enough money to get marriage and you really want to life together,it is ok to do so.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
14 Dec 08
There is no hard and fast rule as to when one should marry, it all depends on the place and society u live in, your financial background, your family background. First of all its very necessary for a boy or girls also these days...to get established in a good career and make their financial position sound enough to hold a family. Some of them attain this at 25 or may be upto 28 or 30...but unless you are tension free from money matters, no use in deciding to settle into a family, that will only lead to problems nothing else.