feel unease

China
December 14, 2008 7:42pm CST
I donot know why, I am a easygoing one in my life. I can talk to others easying if I want, I can be louder, be more confident when I talk to others. however, I feel unease to talk with my teachers. when I face with my teacher, no matter in class or not, i will be nervious. I can not talk to them easily, I can not express my opinion freely, although some of my teachers are quite kind and easygoing. I cannot even free with one word !! please, who can help me to overcome this problem? I can not be the same in my later life!!
5 responses
@vishwaskg (514)
• India
16 Dec 08
Hi Quintessa Know what this is the usual problem which every student in life they face. This is not at all a worrying situation . well i had this kind of a problem and here is what you can try . Before going to your classes read your lessons , meaning better know something than nothing .because that is the usual problem everyone faces....we feel we might forget the matter which the teacher might be referring to. So if you are confident with the subject matter then you will definitely have the confidence to go out and speak to your teacher without any concern . So give this a try .All the best in your Improvements in the long future Life
• China
18 Dec 08
thanks for your considerate response. I learn from it a lot sometimes, I feel nervious because I am not so confident about my lesson, but sometimes, I feel nervious for no reasons. I want to change is, and you advice is something good for me, hope one day I can talk to them easily. A NICE DAY
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
15 Dec 08
Hello quinstessa. It is very normal for you to be a little nervous before your teachers. I am a teacher and I am an approachable one that many of my students think of me as their favorite one and love to chat with me. There are some introvert students who don't dare to talk to their teachers as well. I am used to this kind of students, who are introvert. But I always try my best to be kind and close to them to have them overcome their fear of getting into conversation with their teachers, me included. Try to be friends with your teachers as well and I am sure that you will be able to express your own opinions well as time goes on. Good luck to you, friend.
• China
16 Dec 08
william, thanks for your response. surprise to know that you are a teacher. Yes, I do understand what you mean, and I am not a introvert girl. however, I can not talk to them easily, I do not know why. It bothered me a lot, you know? some of my teacher are my friends, however, I can not treat them as easy as I treat my other friends. I try all my best, but still can not hold my breath smoothly. A NICE DAY!
@riyasam (16556)
• India
15 Dec 08
i also do have respect for the teaches and professors.i am free with everyone else but somehow i cannot open out to teachers.
• China
16 Dec 08
thanks for your responding, riyasam. could you kindly tell me how do you deal with this kind of situation, please?
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I thin you might be intimidated. Try to understand that they are just people, they poop, they cry, and they have kids, some of them. They are just doing their job by trying to help you. A lot of students have wonderful friendships with their teachers.
• China
16 Dec 08
yes, I know what you've said here is right. I know I should take it easy and treat them as a normal person . but, I can not, I do not know why! When I talk to them, I am nervous, and can not even make a full sentence. and it make me feel shameful. I want to find a way to solve this problem. A NICE DAY!
@lixvchen (16)
• China
15 Dec 08
just take your teacher as normal people. your teachers are equal to others.they are not special man, think easy , do as unually do. I think you can overcome this problem. you need more confident.cheer up, you can make it.
• China
16 Dec 08
lixvchen, thank you for responding. I know I should take them as normal people I meet in my life, but I only can not. and, I am not happy about this. hoping I can thanks again A NICE DAY!