anger is this the best way to deal with a problem?

I was once a short-tempered woman but I am happy the Word of God has really made me a better person. I know that I will not be able to be a good testimony to Christ if I will display my anger over problems so I learn to become more patient in every circumstance. There are times though that getting angry is inevitable, but if handled and emoted the proper way, it prevents further problem and stumbling other persons.

I hardly ever get angry these days. It's a waste of energy and time. Some things do get me upset, but I normally rationalize everything. I NEVER scream or yell. If something upsets me, like stupid drivers (my pet peeve), I'll get quiet. You can 'rate' how upset I am by how quiet I get or how long I stay quiet. But, I'm not just holding it in, I'm thinking about whatever it is that upset me. If I can't come up with a reasonable solution or have no control over the situation, I'll do something that makes me happy, like gardening, fishing, craftwork or something like that. I wasn't always like this, but anger was never a big problem of mine. My temper would flare occasionally, but it would settle down as quickly as it came. These days, I've learned that anger does no good.

well I looked at it and guess I am not angry for none of the questions fit me at all. Smile!

well for me we should not be very impulsive in facing our problems. anger is not the solution. if theres a problem that ur encountered right now. u should go to a silent room and pause for a while and think some possible solution to ur problem.

i think it is okay to get / be angry.. or upset.. it's good if you can be very patient, and tolerant.. but surely there is a limit.. and under certain circumstances, something will get upset or angry.. but more importantly is how you control your anger, and what are your actions.. i hate it when people get abusive - even if the dont physically hurt anyone, i still dont like to hear shouts, or screams.. or banging doors and stuff... i think the best thing is just take yourself somewhere else, and cool down.. just let the anger die down.. if not, and if you need vent out.. do something useful - go jogging, cycling.. clean the bathroom, gardening, climb a tree.. something.. just dont hurt yourself, or others... cheers !

It's easy to get angry, but I don't believe that it solves anything. Not really. It makes things worse, in my opinion. Anger isn't a way to solve problems.

I get angry much too easy now, it is awful, I wish I had better control but I do not.

if i am upset of a problem my wife is there to give me comfort. and if she is upset of a certain problem i am the one who comforts her. we dont get upset at the same time. so i think that is what is noce about our relationship. i've seen some couples who get upset or get angryat the same time and they ended up quarelling than fixing the problem. they end up creating more things to get angry about than just controlling their anger.

it.s not the best way but it sure feels good at the time people make you so mad some times you just have to vent and let them know.

hi ann ... thanks for the link all of us are angry at times, but the level it is in is determined by the incident (repetative occurance of action and appology) and by ou stress level .. cheers

anger is not the best way to deal with your problems we have to find another way to vent your anger rather then lashing out with words.