Turn the other cheek

@p1kef1sh (45681)
December 15, 2008 2:29pm CST
I am not at all religious although I try to live my life in a "Christian" way. However, I got to wondering how often I "turn the other cheek". Do you turn yours?
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
15 Dec 08
I turn all four of mine on a regular basis. Keeps me balanced! ROFL
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
15 Dec 08
And a ball under each butt! ROFL At least you're never at a loss for 'games'!
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
15 Dec 08
LOL - wish I could see that!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
I'm well balanced too. A chip on each shoulder!!
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I've turned the other cheek so many times, I've gotten to where I turn them both straight up & request the offender kiss them BOTH. Not as religious as originally intended, but can be very spiritual!!!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
LOL. I know that it can be. You know, even there you can feel the love!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Dec 08
I probably turn it a little more than I really ought to. I hate conflict...
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
Me too Dawn.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Dec 08
Which is not always a good thing...
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• United States
15 Dec 08
i dont turn the other cheek anymore.. i was raised to but after all the crap that has happened to me i refuse to be a victim anymore and take abuse from people (abuse as in emotional.. i know your not saying the other cheek as in hitting literally lol)
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
I don't think that by turning the other cheek you are necessarily giving in. But I know all about being a victim.
• United States
15 Dec 08
I try to live my life so that I don't have to turn the other cheek. But, in those instances where I probably should, sometimes I don't. I would like to say differently, but I am only human, and sometimes I just don't do the right thing.*S*
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
Neither do I Bo. As you say. We are only human!
• Australia
16 Dec 08
Well I wouldn't call what I do "turning the other cheek", it's more avoiding the slap in the first place. I wasn't always like that, but the morning I walked out of Casualty with my broken finger taped up and passed my assailant as he was wheeled in on a stretcher with concussion and a slight fracture of the skull, I decided that my form of retaliation was perhaps a fraction vigourous, and I should tone it down. I should point out that I have never once been the aggressor. In the ensuing 32 years I have managed to avoid having to decide about turning the other cheek, but even now I'm not sure what I would do if someone actually tried to whack me one. It goes against my nature not to retaliate. Lash
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
I try to take a measured approach. What is that they say "get even!!"
@balasri (26537)
• India
16 Dec 08
I have done the nearest thing many times.I have made a furious person cool down by not being furious at him but by trying to reason with him with a smiling face.It was hard.But I just wanted to try and succeeded.I am sticking to this practice since then.It works most of the time. May be slapping and showing the other face almost means this.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Dec 08
Thanks.I will be very careful the next time.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
Some times you can deflate angry, upset people just by talking to them gently. Other times they hit you!!
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• United States
15 Dec 08
Unfortunately the last time I "turned the other cheek" I ended up getting a real "knock out sock on my jaw" from the same person a few months later! I learned a good lesson from that experience.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
Oh dear! Once bitten twice shy eh?
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• United States
15 Dec 08
Yes definitely from that particular person.
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@Latrivia (2878)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I determine my retaliation, or lack thereof, by the situation. If I'm slighted and it's no big deal to me, I just let it go. If it is a big deal, however, I let my passive aggressive side take over and get even. There are some situations where turning the other cheek is just not a very good option.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
Sometimes we do have to stand our ground. I agree. But we often let trivia get the better of us.
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@littleowl (7157)
16 Dec 08
Hi p1ke..the problem with me is that I am always turning the other cheek then when it really hurts I turn and hit their cheeks..but both of them so the person knows I won't always turn either of my cheeks! lol hugs littleowl
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
I have this image of you and A N Other slapping away at each other now Littleowl!! LOL. That will last all day I just know it!
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
15 Dec 08
Honestly..if someone or something upsets me i let them know otherwise i can't sleep kicking myself for letting it get to me.. Did you get your package yet?
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
It's one thing to let them know, another to lash out Rosie. No packages yet.
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• United States
21 Dec 08
I do about 75% of the time...the other 25% is when i get feed up with peoples bs and retaliate. I am generally a nice person and can take alot, but there are times when enough is enough, and i will be rude or what not, depending on what the situation calls for.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 Dec 08
I think that most of us are like that. Turning the other cheek doesn't always mean caving in to others in my view.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 Dec 08
Hey p1ke! I am not very good at "turning the other cheek"! I am not one for looking the other way when someone does something that I don't feel is right especially if it effects me negatively! I don't like anyone to try to walk all over me in any way. I am not one that likes confrontation, but I am not one to walk away from it when it is necessary either. If you do something to me that I feel you need to be told about then I am going to tell you whether you like it or not. And if it is something that is serious enough that it is going to affect our friendship, then watchout! I have no qualms in cutting off friends who push be beyond my breaking point! I am getting quite good at it in fact! There is plenty of room in my life for new friends all the time so there is no need to keep those that I feel will drag me down and aren't worthy!
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
16 Dec 08
That is exactly how I feel. I seek a nice peaceful life but I will not let anyone walk over me in any way. I do not seek or like confrontation but I will not tolerate being humiliated or abused in any way. I have heard priests telling battered wives that they must go back to their husbands and that they must turn the other cheek and forgive him. It made me sick to hear things like that. I think that is is a dangerous idea to never fight back, to never protect your loved ones.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
I am not good at confrontation Opal. I don't lash out (often) either. I preferred a measured and thoughtful response - probably from my hospital bed!!! Sharra, priests that do that need a reality check!
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 Dec 08
Hi sharra~I definitely agree with you! That is a very dangerous thing to tell a battered woman to do! In fact, it is the completely wrong thing to do! It is what will get many killed! We seem to have the same views on this situation. As I don't like confrontation either I will not allow anyone to push me around!
• United States
16 Dec 08
no way man would i turn the other cheek, i believe in eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth, break my arm i break yours, etc........ catch my drift.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
Funny how all that stuff is in the Bible. Makes me wonder about that book.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
16 Jan 09
How else are we going to get both cheeks blushing pink? Yeah, I do more then I want to. Every time I get with my family...at any gathering.Either that or World War 3
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
16 Jan 09
Yep oh most definitely..keeps us humble. I hate the fighting.seems that is all they do. There is no help for my crazy dysfunctional family..I just hang on tight and try to ride out the storm...or war.lol We are all so different it is weird that we came from the same mother. no two alike.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Jan 09
Part of your beauty regime? LOL. Oh dear. We don't want WW3!
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
18 Dec 08
I do often turn the other cheek.. figuratively of course, as not often am I slapped on my cheek! (Then it would be harder yes?) But often I try not to always speak (or write) responses if the response or reaction is snippy, etc. Often when you have an angry retort to something it doesn't help anything to say it, so I've decided in most cases, why say it? If it's a great social cause, however, it may be better to speak up. And you can turn your own cheed but not someone else's!
• United States
18 Dec 08
Yep! My pop in law used to say "if you can't say something good, don't say anything!" - Basicly the same thing!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
18 Dec 08
My MIL always used to say "if you can't say anything sweet; don't say anything at all"! There's something in that I think.
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• Canada
15 Dec 08
There are only so many times one can turn the other cheek. If the problem won't matter in a few hours, then I do, but if it is a problem that must be solved, i will do whatever I need to do to get the problem solved, and to make sure justice will be done. I am trying to teach this concept to my husband who, in my opinion, turns the other cheek way too much.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
Surprisingly I thik that many men to prefer to turn the other cheek. I know many strong women, I'm in awe of some of them!
• Canada
15 Dec 08
Reluctantly, and only once. I'm not stupid enough to give them a third try.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Dec 08
Some times kindnesses don't get recognised I am afraid Annie. XX
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16 Dec 08
Grit my teeth, count to ten, but it doesn't always work. Unfortunately there are not enough people trying to live a Christian life. If more people did, there would be no need to turn the other cheek.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
Perhaps it should start with politicians and church leaders!!
16 Dec 08
I think we will be waiting a long time!
@neuronic (242)
• Japan
15 Dec 08
I am not exactly sure what this proverb means, but if it's something to do with acting differently from expected while being the victim of the violence, or respecting your enemies by not responding with violence then it's clearly idiotic. I'm just imagining the picture: you come home from work at midnight to find your wife's guts shattered on the walls, and your little 5 year old baby girl raped, tortured and half eaten by someone, hey man I think you gotta go nuts and kill the whoever did it, or find the instruments of law to do it for you because that's just too mental. No one will tell me they will just sit calmly and do nothing, or like you said "turn the other cheek".... yeah right...
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Dec 08
Essentially it means rising above injury caused to you. In the case that you suggest I think that it would be very difficult to "turn the other cheek". People have done though. Better men than me.