how can i pass over a broken relationship?
By RedX922
@RedX922 (143)
Romania
December 15, 2008 4:17pm CST
sometimes the love could be blind (almost always)...
i loved girl... i said that i loved her because now between us there is nothing...
she was jealous because in that period in which i was with her i met some beautiful girls more beautiful than her(to be honest)...she thought that i cheat with her and she wanted to broke our relationship...
i made a compromise and i asked he to come back...but we fought from a little thing(did by me)...and she broke our relation again...
but i still love her...and i don't want to be far away from her...
what can i do?
2 responses
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
16 Dec 08
Nothing. It is not acceptable for a man who is in the relationship to meet and speak with other woman, he should avoid or keep the distance from other women. You did not do this. This is the price You pay.
Because it is not that she was very jealous. Just know: it is simple feeling from the deep-deep nature. If You brake the rule: she brakes inside herself and finally comes the moment when it gets her and then she chooses to go away. It will happen with the most of the women, if You do the same thing while being together with one. She will cry her eyes out, forgive, talk to You: and then leave. BECAUSE IT JUST AINT a NORMAL LIFE: to see how Your man gossips around with other women. It is amoral.
@RedX922 (143)
• Romania
16 Dec 08
i know that i brak the rule and...today when i went at her classroom, she didn't want to speak with me and my surprise was ruined...I passed over that moment and i made another girlfriend(from her class)
then she called me...but i didn't wanted to answer because i didn't wanted (i don't know why but that was my feeling)
so this is the end of my relationship with that girl...for me i think it's good...but for her i don't know (suppose that she isn't in a good mood...i think she is very sad because she didn't want to finish the relation like that)
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
16 Dec 08
Hey, I think You should answer the phone call. You are quilty and should not avoid the responsibilities. Answer her phone calls and make friends again with her.
You hurted the feeling of other HUMAN BEING, and she will hate all the men in the world if You wont make friends with her again.
Date other girls, of course, but apologize to this one. It will be easier for BOTH of You. Seriously.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I can't tell from your post how much contact you were having with the *beautiful* girl but it sounds like you gave the girl you love reason to believe that you cheated and so you hurt her in a couple of different ways. You hurt her self esteem...she's not as *beautiful* after all. You destroyed the trust she had in you and you probably killed any dreams she had for the two of you. The reason you fought over little things when you got back together is because the trust is gone.
You may be able to win her back but I think it's going to be a long, hard road so you'll have to decide if you're willing to travel it for her. First of all, you're going to have to apologize for the way you made her FEEL when you were talking to the *beautiful* girl and you have to convince her that SHE is more beautiful in so many important ways. You are going to have to declare your unconditional love and devotion for her and her alone and do whatever she needs you to do to prove it. You need to tell her this...that you're willing to do whatever it takes for her to love you and to trust you again because she is that important to you. Gifts and flowers help too. So do love letters and poems written by you to her. It's not easy to mend a broken heart but, if you really want this girl back, fight for her.
