Is it possible to say i love you to some1 you're not in love?

Philippines
December 15, 2008 11:03pm CST
try to reflect this phrase, " i love you but i'm not in love you.." It does make sense right? In my own observation,there are instances in a relationship that a person may say he or she loves the partner but is not anymore willing to stay in love with him or her.Loving is a feeling while being in love is a condition. One may not follow the other.. I wanna know your thoughts regarding this.. thanks for reading!!
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6 responses
chupangina
@chupangina (90)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
It is not possible. Otherwise, it is FAKE....
mansanas
@mansanas (15)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
How could you say its fake? Its reality. u may feel the feeling of love..but you're not in love with the person. you're not capable of being committed or getting in a relationship with him..FAKE would be not loving at all.
chupangina
@chupangina (90)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Believe me, it's FAKE.
mansanas
@mansanas (15)
• Philippines
17 Apr 09
Prove it.
chiccobaby
@chiccobaby (63)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
it's very easy to say the word i love you to anybody but the question is do the person really mean it. the word i love you nowadays i think is being overly used. so when you say i love you you can't really tell right away if the person is sincere unless he showed it through his action.
mansanas
@mansanas (15)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
yes saying i love you nowadays is overused..but still i am one of the lucky living being that says and does it honestly..(",)
edujccz
@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
My son will normally barrow my cellphone as soon as i arrived home, early in the morning i will pick it up only to find out different girls are communicting with him at the same time, and i can see the word love being expressed between the lines. It seems that these boys dont know the meaning of love at all and girls of today will fall in love by just recieving a text message , wow. So what you are saying is then true, people will simply say the word i love you but are not in love. One of these girls, who happen to be really in love was hospitalized later after a while that the boys get fed up of answering them and in fact we as parents was involved as the mother of the dying girl was asking us to convince our son to talk to their girl. What a freaking world. Girls at 14 are falling in love without seeing the other, while the boys will freak out upon sensing this girls are seriously in love. LOL and that is todays world LOL.
underdogtoo
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
love is not an easy thing and sometimes it is not easy to say the words that you want to express your feelings with. I love you is a nice set of words. Cheers!!
celticeagle
@celticeagle (166672)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Dec 08
I definitely agree. There is a difference between being inlove and loving someone. One is like the way you feel for a family member and the other is what you would feel for your lover. It is a interesting entanglement on either one. You should repaet this one in mid February.
helper9562000
@helper9562000 (311)
• New Zealand
16 Dec 08
I think that what they mean is they they love the other person but they dont love them enough to be partners. It almost like being very close friends or even best of the friends. It means that they care for you and will do alomost anything FOR you but you guys cant be in a realtionship. Hope to have helped helper
mansanas
@mansanas (15)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
yes i got your point. Thank you for that. But what i am trying to impose is the love between lover and not between friends. A very emotional person would easily care and love someone even if he or she isnt in love..