What if your fallen for someone, but your in a relationship for 3 yrs.?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
6 responses
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
So everything you do is your own decision. I am sure that those people who decide to do one way have their own reasons for doing so. I like my life simple but this is not to say I don't do stupid things once in a while. Cheers!!
@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
16 Dec 08
To me, a relationship be it a long one or a short one, so long as there is no feelings at all or if the partner is not right for me, then there is no point in sticking to this relationship just so I hope that he will change in the near future.
Everything in life needs courage for change. But of course, if your girlfriend is someone who treats you good and loves you for who you are, there is no point in risking a good relationship for someone new.
I wont risk a good relationship for someone new just because he is good looking. HOwever, if I am stuck in a bad relationship and someone who is good comes along, I might consider giving up on the current relationship (no matter how long it had been) to try someone new. That is provided he can love me for who I am.
Well, take care and happy mylotting!
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Weigh the pros and cons. If you are in a relationship for three successful years, and you know your other half as if you know yourself; and you feel deep down in your heart that you can not live a day without this person, then it is true love. Might as well follow your heart and stick with that person - the love of your life.
However, if within three years and the relationship is rocky, there is no maturity, the essence of "meism" is evident, then it just means that falling apart will be inevitable. You may consider the possibility of looking someone who will appreciate the love you can offer. But that is.. if you already end your relationship with the person you are with first.
@chiccobaby (63)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
it really happens in real life. but of course you have to weigh things out if you would go for the other one or stick with your girl.
@chupangina (90)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Common bro its just normal. Don't deprive yourself. Just go and enjoy life.
