You have feelings for your best friend, would you tell her/him?

It is always best to be true to yourself. By that it means not passing the moment for you to finally have the guts to tell your best friend how you really feel. Otherwise, there will always be this "what if" thoughts that will always haunt you. I would rather him knowing it than be burried with these secret emotions with me. Keep on starting nice discussions. It's great!

nope! I will not do it, just for the sake of our friendship still remains..even it hurts, i will still hide my feelings on to him!

better tell her than not. not telling only complicate matters further according to me. When you have feelings someone you must put the feelings in front of that person and then decide what to do next.

Sometimes you really can't avoid being too close to your friends that you are misled by that feeling. Yes, it could be love, infatuation or even lust but you have to control yourself if you want to keep the friendship. It is good to be honest with each other but ofcourse if you tell him/her that you are falling in love with him/her, things will definitely change. You are lucky if she/he also likes you but if she/he doesn't...you have to face the consequences of losing a bestfriend because she/he will definitely feel uncomfortable when she/he is with you,knowing that he/she hurt you by not having the same feelings for you. You have to choose...your friendship or your love. I know some people who are good friends but they got carried away by their emotions, something happened and the next thing they knew their ignoring eachother because they feel uncomfortable and are ashamed of what they did.....so their friendship is over.Goodluck! I hope you choose the right path.

I am incapable of keeping my mouth shut when it comes to my feelings - if I am in love with someone, if they haven't figured it out already, then I *must* make a complete and total fool of myself and tell them. Sometimes, things turn out really well. Other times, they turn out kinda terribly. But in the end, I feel better for having been honest.

The outcome to this situation is never good. Never good for me at least. I've had many girls that were friends and I just liked them so much and thought they was so perfect for me that I ended up confessing that I liked them like that. It makes things weird for them. It's best that they see your qualities first. Most girls are conceded though and will only date a "hot" looking guy. If you don't meet their criteria, not much you can do.

This is a catch 22 situation. Either ways you could be stumped. I think, had I been there, I would have told her. Its always better to express ourselves and get hurt than to not to do it at all. And you are not doing any CRIME!! Love is the most beautiful thing on earth!

This happened to me when i was younger. I was completely and utterly head-over-hells for my best-friend. Everybody knew i liked her except for her. I went years and years admiring her trying to sum up the courage to tell her how i felt. I then got enough courage to tell her but then she had to move away, so for two years i waited for her return n next thing u know i told her i liked her from ever since and we started to date. It didn't really lasted that long but am glad i had something with her. We saw that we were completely different people so we broke it off. It was awkward in the beginning after the break up but then we still reminded very very close friends after. So it was all good :).