which is more important for a woman,career or love?

China
December 16, 2008 12:41am CST
As a woman nowadays,she has many things to do,including her job,homework,taking after children,and so on.Sometimes things make women's head hurt.At most time we can see to things with all our soul.However when you meet a situation where you can only choose one between career and love,which will you choose as a woman?And what do you think of women's choice as a man,when she choose career or love?
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@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
16 Dec 08
Normally woman should choose LOVE. But I would choose CAREER. Because of the insecurity that this world brings to me EVERY DAY, and since I have seen a lot of woman who suffers from bad partners and has no opportunities to break out of that NIGHTMARE, I would choose what is best for me: and of course it would be CAREER. And in most of the times men would understand my choice, because they know that they ain`t no ANGELS, right?
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• China
17 Dec 08
Yeah.Although I am expecting my love and will sacrifice more time for my family,I am paying more attention to my job.Just as you said,I think women should depend on herself not her husband.At least in economy you can support yourselt as a woman.
@shonali (1286)
• India
16 Dec 08
I am a woman my self and its kind of hard to choose between love and career but i guess for me both stand at equal power..... a woman is nothing without love but the woman of today is also nothin without career and an income..... for me..... career comes first and then comes love though i would be devastated if i lost my love cos of my career and ambitions..... and also would be devastated if i lost my career cos of my love...... we are kind of stuck both the ways and want both in our lives and thats why strive to achieve the best in both..... but i think todays woman would choose career over love .....
@sivanj (1263)
• India
16 Dec 08
i am no woman though but from a woman's perspective i feel that love is more important than career. i say so because, we all live to enjoy life. what else can you ask for more than a very loving & caring husband and a loving family. the life will become fun and happiness filled. thats what life is all about when that is fulfilled why regret that the career is lost? earning is something that comes to support our life. we can't live a miserable life saying that we will have a great career. this is my personal view. and this would be acceptable for a man too.
• China
17 Dec 08
Yeah.As a man not a woman,which one will you choose,love or career?
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
hi meirong, i am a woman and currently single. level of importance is i prefer to choose love at the top because i want to start a better family of my own and a successful marriage. i believe family is the foundation of all, successful career is nothing if the family is weak. we can earn money but not love, not good marriage, not loving kids, not respect from the spouse. i am not saying that career is not vital of course it should be taken cared of too but not as important as love for family. this is a nice discussion.
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
yes because that is what i am dreaming of. to become a faithful wife and a loving mother of two kids. i believe that woman have a vital role in the upbringing of her children. it is in her hands on how to discipline the children and to mold them to become a good citizen of this world as well as to become God fearing and human loving person. thanks also for commenting!
• China
17 Dec 08
Thanks.you will be a wonderful wife and mother.