sense or sensibility?when your fall in love!

China
December 16, 2008 6:14am CST
sometimes i ask myself,what really love can do ? what's the ture love? is love sense or sensibility ?
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
16 Dec 08
I believe that sense and sensibility can be one in the same. Sometimes falling in love can make sense and sometimes not. We can fall for someone that might seem that they could be all wrong for us and then find out that we have a lot in common. I am sure that there are people that fall for someone everyday and it doesn't take long until they are in a relationship and later married. Some people might rush into something too soon and are sorry later. It takes some maturity to know when there is real love involved. Some people have something called infatuation or lust. Whereas the two just seem like it is the real deal but really it is not. There are probably a lot of people out there that can distinguish between real love and just fantasy and the like. Sometimes maturity comes with age and experience with others and sometimes failed relationships can be great at showing us where we went wrong and how to approach a prospective love next time. Love does not come easy all of the time. Sometimes it isn't reciprocated like the way we would like it to be but nonetheless I feel that we all need love and acceptance. It is just the natural way to be for all of us. Life without a special someone would be quite lonely. Of course there might be some people that want to go it alone for fear of being scared to enter into a relationship. Take care.
• China
16 Dec 08
hi bamakelly: thanks for your excellent comment! these things troubled me indeed,but i believe i can control it well/ thanks for sharing this!sending you my blessing! Barry