is suicide a way out if you learned that you're cheated by the one you love?
@kenchiprincess (5296)
Philippines
December 16, 2008 6:39am CST
boyfriend really felt bad last night. we were talking over the phone and he told me that a comrade of him is cheated by his fiance. boyfriend's friend and his fiance are set to be married January 2009 but the sad thing is the girl got involved with his married co-worker. since her boyfriend has access to surveillance she was being followed around and during that time there were footages that she and co-worker check-in somewhere because of this her boyfriend really felt bad and hurt. last night boyfriend's other comrades was trying to pacify the guy while they keep constant communication with my boyfriend. the sad thing is why he is being pacified by another comrade to took the gun of his comrade and shoot himself below the chin in front of his comrade. it was a shattering news that boyfriend really felt bad about it. can you imagine this guy have been into several encounters and wars before but he protected his life to live with a lot of bandits but because of love he took his own life. i felt bad as well even if i don't know this guy personally. boyfriend felt bad because he told me that he wasn't able to share God's goodness and kindness with him. Please help us pray for his soul because of what he did. Thanks a lot.if you were in his case would you do the same?
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@chellymarz (408)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
hi friend that really sad. sometimes when people in a situation that is so hurting, their mind becomes clouded and they do things that are not good. that's why it is really important that we have Jesus in our life because only Him can help us. if i were that guy, i would not take my life because their is so much life after a bad relationship. its not yet the end. and it is a sin to take our own life.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
thanks for the share friend. that's why we feel bad too, especially boyfriend, because we were not able to share with him Jesus and how much He love us and that God will not give us any trials if we can't handle it. imagine a man of uniform was weak when it comes with love and losing it. we are asking for prayers just to lessen what he has to suffer. happy mylotting!!!
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
Rest assured that i will include him in every mass here in our place, but it would be better if i can have his name(PM it to me). No, i would not do what he has done. I am sorry that he took his own life but he really needs our prayers now to help him rest his soul. He should have had the courage to face what ever his girlfriend has done. He should have realized that he is lucky to know the truth about his girl before they are married. But i guess, he lost his faith and got so scared to face life with the shame that his girl has done. Which in this case, he shouldn't feel any shame at all, because he was the one who was hurt and done bad with. May God rest his soul.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
thanks so much for the prayers that your are going to offer him. he really needs that after what had happened knowing this is really a big sin. that is what i told my boyfriend that he shouldn't feel shame for it wasn't him who had done wrong it should have been the girl but we can't do anything about it for the act has been done. thanks so much for the prayers offered.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
18 Dec 08
No, I will not do the same. That lady who is a cheater is not worth to die for. The friend of your boyfriend never realize that it is a blessing he knew what kind of a lady his fiancee was? she can not be trusted. Just imagine she went with a married man? meaning she is not a good woman and not worth to die for. I just pity the man who did not use his brain but his foolish heart. We don'
t know that cheater woman will pay the prize when the wife of that married man will know of their elicit relationship.
t know that cheater woman will pay the prize when the wife of that married man will know of their elicit relationship. @kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
i totally agree with you friend. he shouldn't have committed such thing over someone who is not worth it. thanks for the response and have a great day!!!
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
16 Dec 08
there is no one worth killing yourself over, no girl or guy.. i'm sorry if my wife cheated on me i sure wouldn't kill myself hell i wouldn;t even fight for her to stay. i be like ok bye see you later..
the go out and find someone else who's younger and hotter and play the kid rock song that goes like this
"i've found someone half your age, and half as hot then you"
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
thanks for sharing. he must have love the girl so much. according to boyfriend this friend of his is very loyal to the relationship that he is into. happy mylotting.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
16 Dec 08
i really love my wife too been together going on 24 yrs. but if she went out and was cheating on me, i wouldn't kill myself.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
19 Dec 08
When I was 17 and thought I was in love I had thought about it when I realized he did nothing but cheat on me and lie to me, but yet would still come to me for one thing. Thankfully I realized it wasn't worth it. and now that I have kids Im so thankful I didn't. I think that is the stupidest way out of things, but when your young and stupid you really don't think of much else. You have been hurt and just want to go away.
