why people hardly help the poor?

You should understand that not everyone is able to look into the eyes of a poor man or woman and say: I am sorry for You and want to help You. Because then one will understand that he lives in much better conditions than many other people out there. But still...he finds many problems and obstacles to complain about. A reason for dissatisfaction. And then looking to those poor ones...And understanding how not-thankful person You actually are...or were. It takes a big courage to do it. I sometimes get a feeling that if I will give some money to the poor ones: I might become poor as well, but they- richer. I know, it sounds silly, but it is like this. Maybe instead of help or giving away money or clothes it would be MUCH BETTER to provide them with JOB OPPORTUNITIES? So they start to work HOW much they want and CAN and get what they deserve to get for a good made job. What do You think?