love or just an infatuation?
By chariana10
@chariana10 (143)
Taiwan
December 16, 2008 8:09am CST
sometimes when were hook into someone we think that it was love. we took care of it we surrender everything, we do anything, we wanted it for a lifetime.but after then, when a not so good situation occurs and things broke up.we shed a lot of tears and had moved on after. we realize that it wasnt really LOVE just an infatuation.yet, we aready waste out time and effort. too late then..
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3 responses
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
I never think in terms of love. I prefer to talk about attraction which is more accurate. We often jump to love and find there is nothing there to base our feelings. I prefer to think of love as an active thing rather than some passive exchange of vibrations. Cheers!!
@chariana10 (143)
• Taiwan
17 Dec 08
well thats a good defense..lol
thanxs for the response!
happy mylotting!
@metaljunkiechuk (225)
• Belize
16 Dec 08
Life is about taking risks and trying different things. We learn from the mistakes and we grow to become the better human being. When we are with someone we may love them or we my be completely infatuated by them but in that process we learn about ourselves. I'd say that if your in a relationship n it ends u don't 'waste time n effort' u develop and grow n see what u really want in life.
Happy Mylotting mylottians! =D
@chariana10 (143)
• Taiwan
17 Dec 08
yeah youre right.. but i believe that what you did in your past affects the present or maybe the future.so, thats is why i told then a waste of time..
thanxs for the reponse!
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Well I guess what is important on that is that you learned something from that experience. You learned to distinguished what is love and what is infatuation. In that learning experience were we also become a better and stronger person and most importantly is we matured from it. It is not a waste of time actually it is as I said a learning experience and all is not lost if you continue to believe that we can again love in the future.
