I just do not know what to say when meeting her.....
By linsond
@linsond (33)
China
December 16, 2008 8:37am CST
I have broken up with my girl friend for nine months,and now I want to make up with her.I have MSG her and set a time and a place,I do not whether she will come or not;If she comes,I do not know what to say.And there is a feeling that she will come,yes,she will......
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4 responses
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
Well since you initiated the meeting with your ex-girlfriend just be man enough to do what you suppose to do... if you need you say sorry then do so... its your chance to clean up your mess or clear things out with her...
don't just slip your chance away boy!
go!go! good luck!
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@linsond (33)
• China
20 Dec 08
Welcome to mylot ,cathya!
She didn't give me the chance to apologize!I think we are done really!
That's OK!I can accept it!Everyone will suffer this step to find the truth love!
I will be brave to say goodbye to my first love and wait for my truth love!
good luck to you,too!
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Well to start up with her again what would you do. Since you initiated this meeting you are expected to apologize for whatever mistake you every cause her for this breakup. I think that is what is expected by the other party. I guess being humbled in this point in time would definitely be the key to a better reconciliation and hopefully you could enroll her in coming back to you again. So good luck in your aspiration to bring her back to your life again.
@linsond (33)
• China
16 Dec 08
rsa101,thanks for your response and your advice!Yes,I really have something to apologize and I will do that this time!We Chinese people are too shy to express our real motion,but now ,I think I have the courage and It is the time for me to bring her back;Thank you again,I will tell you the latest news after we meet...
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
16 Dec 08
Bear in mind that, after nine months, she may have moved on, even if you haven't.
@linsond (33)
• China
16 Dec 08
OH,come on!Do you really think so!I also think that nine months is a long time,but I just do not want to lose her.By the way,Christmas Day is our anniversary,when the day is coming ,I cannot help missing her so much.We have so many memorise .Time will tell,and hope I can be the lucky guy!
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
16 Dec 08
Yes, I really do think that after nine months someone may very well have moved on. Of course, I don't know your (or her) age, situation and history but you have to be aware, unfortunately, that people very often do not feel the same after nine months separation.
There are all sorts of questions which might be relevant - why did you break up in the first place? How long had you been together? Were either of you (or both) with other people afterwards? ... only you can answer those questions.
I still say, be prepared to accept that she has moved on. I hope (for your sake) that you might get it together, but be realistic!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
Just be yourself and just smile at her. Start with a hello. Usually everything start with one hello. Then just try to reminishing the past. How you first met hehehe. Sometimes it does work. For sure you can handle it well. If it really is meant for you it will just happen. Good luck! Good night!
