make plan for your child
By josephjota
@josephjota (109)
China
December 16, 2008 9:59am CST
chinese parents always over make life plan for their children,because they think they have got the exprience about life .do you think it is a better choice for a child.
1 response
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
16 Dec 08
If the parents of that children has really good life experience PLUS they have listened to the life experience from their parents and grandparents who listened to their parents and.... :)
Yes, I think children should listen. Because they know what they are doing. And they want only the best for their children, as I have heard that Chinese parents don`t have more than 2 children, but usually only 1.
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@josephjota (109)
• China
17 Dec 08
i agree with you ,thank you for your opinion. now i want to know how do you think about that only 1 child in one chinese family ?
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
19 Dec 08
Well, I would prefer to speak about only child in the Chinese family: and a GIRL.
I have heard that it is more honorable and proud thing: to have a child-boy rather then a child-girl. :( How about this one?
But generally child planning decisions should not come from the government and society in general.
If the family is loving one and would like to have many children: they should be allowed to have them. Anyway, You never know if that ONLY ONE child wont get into a car accident and disappear from the life. To live with only one child is like to walk on a thin rope all life long.
@josephjota (109)
• China
20 Dec 08
YES you are right , one child means a lot risk surround a family . but if we dont have family planning ,there could be a lot of people come out .then we will be like african getting hungry .do you agree with this ?
in china many people living in country or small town prefer to get a boy but a girl ,because they regard man as a main labour.and some other people think that continuing the family line will rely man.but most family living in big city dont care about that !
