Do you get disappointed when you donot get any response for your discussions?

@shar_25 (1339)
India
December 17, 2008 4:49am CST
Do you get disappointed when you donot get a single response for a discussion that you have started? Earlier I used to. But now i learnt the trick. the best way would be to start a lot of discussions instead of one or two so that you get response for at least a couple of them even if its just one response. It usually works for me except for times when luck is simply not in my favour. Do you have any such tricks to share?
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@djonghs (560)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 08
Yes, i'll be disappointed if my discussion do not get any responses, it will break my heart into pieces. But i'll take it positively that may be it has no response because they do not understand or they do not have any answer for that topic. It will become a lesson learned, so we know which topic will have more response. The most important thing is we must have positive attitude that motivate ourself to start more and more discussion. "NEVER GIVE UP, KEEP MOVING FOWARD, BE POSITIVE THINKING" CIA YO!!! GAMBATE NE!!! BR.G
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thanks a lot for your response. Happy mylotting!!
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@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Hi There! When I was new here in mylot, I tried to post some discussions… My first few discussions got few responses from mylotters. I feel a little disappointed but not really bad since I was new… I don’t have lots of friends and I am just starting out… What I did is answer their discussions then add them to my friend’s list then after that I created my own discussion again and Ola! People responded… It really takes time you know… but I am happy with mylot and the people here! Don’t worry, others will notice your discussions… just be active here... they usually check your profile and the threads that you have started then if it is interesting then someone or somebody will really answer that… GOodluck! Happy Mylotting and Happy Mylotting! Cheers!
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thanks a lot for your response.
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@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Yes I do. I don't mind at all very few responses but I really feel disappointed if I don't get any. Well, maybe because most of the time I think that I posted very important or interesting topics.
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thanks a lot for your response.
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
I feel quite disappointed and sad about having no response to the discussions I have made. I think I have 2 topics with no responses. I think that there are people who could have respond to my topic if only they were logged in the time I started such discussions. Well, I have no tricks to share. I only start very few topics in a day. There are also days that I do not start my own discussion. I guess I am more of a respondent than a starter. Anyway, Goodluck to you! Happy Lotting!
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
I don't think it'll affect you in any other way-apart from the fact that you won't get any earnings as there won't be any response for it.
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
thanks for the response. I have many such discussions where I haven't got a single response. But then there are many where I have got a lot of responses. So it gets balanced out. Happy mylotting to yout too!
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Do you think having discussions without responses can affect our earnings here in mylot? Just wondering.
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@mariefe18 (663)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
I really get frustrated sometimes but on the other hand I can't really force people to respond to my discussion especially so if they are not really interested with it.
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
17 Dec 08
Thats right, its frustrating. But many a times it has happened that I do not get any response the same day for a discussion started by me. But after a couple of days responses come flowing in for the same discussion. So you never know what happens when.
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
That's true. Sometimes I am waiting for a few hours for responses but nothing comes but after a day or two I get a few responses.
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
@adenkay (38)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
I'm new here at MyLot. I think I would experience that also. (*lol*) Maybe, I would get disappointed also, especially when no one would ever comment on my posts. Anyway, responding to discussions would mean earning? isn't it?
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Welcome onboard, adenkay. Yeah you are right, resonding to discussions and responses that you get from others for your discussions adds to your earnings. Thanks for the response. Enjoy your stay in mylot!!
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
ei!.. thanks shar_25! :P
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
personally, i could say it is disappointing but i also know that it can avoided that there are really times that you will not be responded by others for the reason that some may not able to relate on the discussion, or they haven't came across it. I think its just a matter of learning how to make a discussion that can attract and that people can relate and that has good quality. I guess that's one of the trick.
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thats one of the tricks and a really matured one. Thanks Cheenlly, for your response.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Sometimes, very often it seems like no one is really interested in the discussions that are the most important to me. But they will all answer the fluff discussions that has no value.
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thats right. You never know what really people have in mind. Thanks for your response.
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
It haven't really happened to me yet, I usually get at least 2 responses and that is already ok with me than no response at all. I probably would get disappointed, i would think why people would not respond to my discussion, it is because it is not catchy or because it is boring.
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
So you have been really lucky all these while. I hope you don't face this disappointment ever. Thanks for responding.
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 08
This never happened to me that i never get a response. I dont start alot of discussions myself, i rather reply to other discussions. But i think you should search for discussions similar to the one you are going to start, because that will cause your reputation to go down if you start the same or similar discussion which is already been there. I do that when ever i start a discussion. i hope this would help you next time. thanks
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Yeah sometimes it does happen that you end up posting similar discussions. but nobody does it on purpose. its practically not possible to check all the discussion. And having so many like minded people around, its likely that similar discussions get posted by two people a lot of times. Its good that you check things at your end. But no one is here to police others right. So I believe in just chilling and enjoying. Thanks for your response.
@alexlsp (85)
• Singapore
18 Dec 08
Let's see... When I first start MyLotting, I have 2 discussion with no response. By now most of my discussion is always with a few responses. I just can't seem to get beyond a few though (still less than 10) hmmm....
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Keep trying. Luck will be on your side soon. Happy mylotting and thanks for your response.
• India
18 Dec 08
well sometimes it feels like you know since no one has responded the discussion you feel like that your discussion is just useless and not capable of actually getting any responses, but then if you take it with a pinch of salt and practically then you might actually learn from them how to develop it and be better the next time......
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
I like your spirit. Keep it up. Thanks for responding.
• China
18 Dec 08
certianly i have .from now on,i will learn from you ,start more topic ,then will get response at least couple of them
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
He...he... At least my idea is helping someone. Nice to know that. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
I do not get disappointed. Since it is just a discussions. Maybe at that time, my discussion was not that attractive enough to get a response. Rejections are just the next step to Success!:)
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Keep the positive thoughts going!! Thanks for the response. Happy mylotting!!
@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
17 Dec 08
Yeah. Post quality discussions. Post things that speak to people. Quality is better than quantity. No trick involved.
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Will remember your advice. But my trick is basically to spare you the disappointment of not getting any response. Thanks for your response.
• United States
17 Dec 08
yes
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thanks for your response
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
17 Dec 08
Hi friend,Initially I used to worry when I get 0 response but I havent got any so far .I get atleast one.But I used to make only one or two discussions perday.Now a days I rarely make any.I find responding interesting than making discussions and commenting on each response we get.So now a days I only respond to discussions.Even we earn quite a good amount only in responding.So I concenterate in number of discussions I respond and not to make discussions. thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Hi Thanks for the response. I too donot start discussion every day. Because not everyday that I can think of somthing interesting to discuss about. So during those days I too prefer responding to others like you.
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
17 Dec 08
Not only do I get disappointed when my discussion is not responded but also get shocked as to how come such a great discussion of mine has missed peoples attention. I feel very bad about it.
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
17 Dec 08
It Happens. Follow my tip and see if it works for you. If you get response for at least 2 discussions you won't feel bad not getting responses for the 3rd one. Thanks for the response.
@aakay4u (799)
• India
17 Dec 08
Yes i get disappointed when i dont get any response for a discussion i start,and the worst thing is that my most common discussions i start get more responses than being specific.But anyways its ok,i raised two in Q&A and got irrelevant replies one in each,i raised the same in yahoo and got more than 30 responses and around 20 were of relevance,so i got my answer there.Yes i agree its better to raise 2-3 discussions at a time and a secret,i think when the mylot people update your accounts,i guess that time most of the users are online.Also building friendships so that we can respond to theirs then they will come to our discussion.Happy mylotting.
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
18 Dec 08
Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting!
• India
17 Dec 08
Not getting responses to my discussion certainly makes me down but it dows not drive me mad. I think everybody here except a few try to post a meaningful discussion and expect to get responses... at least a few. When a zero is shown beside your discussion, it does frustrate. i had the experience recently. However, there is no control on the issue. So i feel it is better to try again so that luck gets the scope to favor me. Happy mylotting
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@shar_25 (1339)
• India
17 Dec 08
Thanks for your response. You seem to be a very positive minded person.I know, there are good and bad days everywhere. Happy mylotting to u too