Love is for Handsome guys and Pretty girls?
By sdas86
@sdas86 (6076)
Malaysia
December 17, 2008 9:19am CST
Hi,
I found that a lot of girls are looking for handsome guys for relationship. Guys are looking for pretty girls for relationship. I understand that with a pretty face or handsome face, it will make a person looks more attractive and it is much easier for them to get a partner.
So, what should a not handsome or not pretty person do? Should we go for plastic surgery and make ourselves more handsome or more pretty?![](/Content/images/emotes/lol.gif)
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35 responses
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 08
Love is not only for handsome guys and pretty girls. Relationships based on physical attractions do not normally contain true or real love. So what happens when one of the partners find or meet someone more attractive? What if the beauty is marred by an accident or fades away with age?
Someone who is not handsome or pretty need not go for plastic surgery. Be true to the self and cultivate positive values and behaviour.
all the best,
rosdimy
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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18 Dec 08
Agreed, it is what is deep inside that makes us handsome and we cant see that at first glance. We can not really judge the look of someone until we get to know them
blessed be
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
With that kind of set up, most of the time, I would hear that if you can't get by with how you look, you will get by with what you achieved. As in, a career that can be recognized by others.
Of course, we can't avoid what we perceive first with our senses and realize the value of people after getting to know them.
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@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
That's just too physical.
Love a person for who he/ she is. I think a person must show his/ her true self to whoever she likes/ loves. What's inside is more important than what's seen outside.
That's just for me.
@rgenzon (44)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Hahaha. you're right.. i dont know.. i dont look on the physical features of the one that im liking.. its just that.. the physical feature is just a total add on.. you know you cant show off your partner if he or she is not pretty nor handsome.. hahaha. lol.. have a nice day.. take care
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
18 Dec 08
Only looking for pretty or handsome partners is very shallow. The cutest guys I have ever seen were all gay and not interested in women, the beautiful women I have known were all vain and shallow and expected to be treated as special.
I have learned that love lies with the person inside not the outside shell. Lust for a pretty face is not love and soon wears off.
@Charismatic_verma (32)
• India
23 Dec 08
Love is a feeling which can't be judge by the physical appearance of a person. Love is the compatibility of the two souls which are made for each other, and ready for every sacrifice for the sake of each other's happiness.
@shonali (1286)
• India
18 Dec 08
well i am an average or rather above average looking person.... and i have never gone around looking for handsome guys to fall in love with cos love just happens... you dont make it happen....and if its like that then thats not called love.... my boyfriend is not that great to look at ..... but he is beautiful from his heart and thats what matters to me
many a times i was told that i could get better looking guys than him but thats something that is definately not on my mind.....
what matters is the inner beauty.... not the exterior.....
the people who look for the exterior are the losers in the long run for sure.....
cos what finally matters is whats on the inside not the outside packaging which can be changed anytime in todays world.....
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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18 Dec 08
love doesnt see pretty or ugly. Love makes pretty. When in love, the object of desire is pretty. A good looking person becomes ugly with bad feeling. Being truely ugly is very very rare as it is a result of thoughts and attitudes. Beauty is about feeling. Surgery can not make someone beautiful, only love can do that
blessed be
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
18 Dec 08
No this is a silly idea. Love is about the inner person not the shell. People who have fancy shells are often all too aware of it and expect to be treated as special. They are often snobs and look down on people who they think are ugly. It has nothing to do with love.
I know a guy who took out a beautiful girl once just as he dreamed but she was such a b1tch that he could not stand her and he said he would never date a beautiful girl again. He would rather have a real person.
@bittertruth (150)
• United States
23 Dec 08
That's how media has showcased love. and all of us fell for it.
love is not only about something cooking up between handsome guys and pretty girls as shown on those movies.
love is more than that. Guys, just come out of the box, things are different and start thinking differently than what these crappy medias are forcing you to see and feel.
stay away from fake stuffs like surgery and soo..
If you are good person, people will love you and eventually someone will show up from the crowd for you. Keep your finger crossed and being good. :)
@Tushavi (2077)
• Karachi, Pakistan
18 Dec 08
Nope!!! Not See The Persons Face Not See The Persons Wealth um You think see what??? Yep see the persons heart if who are not beauiful but who are honestly love with you thats all i think & i disagree love is only for Beautiful ones love is for whole world peoples who think about that who feel a love.
have a nice day.
@Agathacoco (336)
• China
18 Dec 08
oh ,I think everyone have the right to love ,and God is fair to everyone. the people who are not pretty or handsome could aslo find their true love .
@josephjota (109)
• China
18 Dec 08
if everything is like you said ,the world will lose balance !love is for everybody who believe in love !so don't judge love by just seeing a small wave ,if you work hard and have more skill to live ,you will be attractive!
@alladcs (19)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
True love doesn't come with beauty, it generally comes from what we feel inside, something we feel within. And feelings can't definitely be masked by the light of beauty , but by the light of the heart. And that I think makes LOVE magical, we love (even though they weren't a boyfriend or girlfriend material)but because that's what I feel, because it is what our heart needs, and what we generally need in life to be happy, to live happy. That's the main course of life right? Thus, beauty doesn't matter at all, people may prefer handsome boys or handsome girls, yeah, that's what they foresee, but when they feel this magical light, beauty will never be the center of everything but the magical feeling they feel inside...
@kaka135 (14927)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 08
I don't think love is for handsome guys and pretty girls, true love should not be dependent on the appearance or outlook. Surely when we grow old, when we become old man and old woman, our look will definitely not be as pretty as we are now, we will have wrinkles, etc. But what can make two persons together forever is because of true love, they won't leave each other even though the other one's appearance has changed.
Build your good personality, add more values to yourself, I think this is more important. Girls do like wise men too. ![](/Content/images/emotes/lol.gif)
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@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Of course not.Everyone has the right to love and be loved.My partner is not really physically attractive but I still chose to love him.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Well, I guess you have made a good observation. But the thing is, there are also not so handsome guys and not so pretty girls that does have beautiful and attractive partners. Although appearance such as beauty mean a lot in choosing a partner, often it is love that counts in the end. Besides, appearance is not only the factor that people should choose someone for a lifetime partner. Attitude is also important. So I guess, anyone with a good heart will always find someone.![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
18 Dec 08
My dear, love has nothing to do with beauty. I also thought like you do in my early days. You will realize that it is not the case only when some one will fall in love with you, just wait for that time patiently.
@zhouliannie (78)
• China
18 Dec 08
it; not true .good looking caan give you more chance.but it cant give you anything .you will find your ture love if use your ture heart.the people really suit you wont care your looking so much.just be confident to yourself
@easterangel (139)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
I've seen so many not so handsome guys get very pretty girls and vice-versa so its not a general rule and you won't need plastic surgery. I think in the need, people are looking for character. If a person has character, looks become secondary.
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