childsupport
@brandypelland (586)
United States
5 responses
@brandypelland (586)
• United States
17 Dec 08
this is waht i pretty much thought to. i just had my bf got o jail for a 11 month sentence but only spent 4 months for health issues for his back childsupport. his po officer came oday and told him if in a month he has no job even though he knows no one is hiring right now he going back to jail for 2 years ! i am really confused and lost right now.
@brandypelland (586)
• United States
17 Dec 08
this agree with for he is only 4000 behind over 10 years !
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
19 Dec 08
Yes, I do think it is right for someone to go to jail if they don't pay child support. Why? because they kids that are born do not ask to be born. It takes two parents to raise kids. Even if it just means one helps out by supporting them. This has always been a real touchy issue for me. I have three kids and I have always supported them or found a way to support them and provide what they need. But it took two people to make these kids. I do think the other parent should help to. Now a days the only way to get the other parent to help support the child if they do not wish to is to throw them in jail. I think it is truely sad when a childs own parent does not care enough about them to help at least support them.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
19 Dec 08
Child support is base on someone income. So someone witha minimum wage job should not have a high child support unless they had a high paying job to begin with. You also can go every three year sand petition to lower payments if situations change. Such as taking a lower paying job. It a parent does not try to get it changed all teh time they should have no problems.
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
19 Dec 08
What about people who don't make enough to pay child support? If someone makes minimum wage it is obvious that they are not going to be able to pay rent and live while paying $300 a month in child support.
@brandypelland (586)
• United States
19 Dec 08
no i think you have to look at the situion on every case first. if there is somone who make 20.00 an hour and runs hides and refuses to pay childsuppoet throw thier butts in jail! if there is a person who works at mcdondals and cant pay thier childsuppot what then?
or abouth the ones that sit on ssi,diabilite and welfare they dont have tp pay a dime
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
17 Dec 08
This is a double edged sword. Unless doing jail time is going to pay off what the father owes then no he shouldn't go to jail.
How could he make money to pay for the child support? Then the snowball effect. If they are accruing a debt while in jail then they are never going to be able to pay it. If they are behind while they are working they are most certainly going to be way behind if they are locked up and can't work.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
19 Dec 08
Granted he won't make money while he is sitting in jail. But if jail isn't a threat. Than what will motivate those parents who do not wish to pay? Threatned with jail time or have them serve jail and they will at least attempt to pay something.
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
19 Dec 08
And what about the guy who doesn't make enough to pay child support? Should one family starve because a parent is obligated to pay child support by law?
Seriously. I know a guy who had 2 kids with a woman he was married to for about 14 years. They got a divorce. He met someone else and had 3 kids with her. He wasn't able to pay all of his child support and would get locked up when he fell behind. By locking him up he lost earnings. Therefore only setting him back even further. The court here goes by your income and not by how many kids you have with your current wife. At one time he was locked up for 5 months in a row because he wasn't able to pay all of what he owed. IF you ask me that is a waste of my tax dollars.
What about him? Lock him up so his current family doesn't have an income? Let 3 children under the age of 4 go hungry?If your answer is he shouldn't have had the kids. Then it is only logical that it isn't a matter of the law. The woman and man shouldn't have had the kid and tax dollars shouldn't be spent making sure they are paying. They should have thought with their heads before they had the kids.
If someone has a child with someone who will make minimum wage for the rest of their life, they might not ever be able to pay child support. If they did they would self destruct because they wouldn't be able to support themselves unless they had to pay $20 a month in child support.
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
19 Dec 08
When I said "he was locked up 5 months in a row" I meant each month he was locked up for 3-7 days. That is at least $1,000 in earnings that he could have have made.
His current family has had to move several times because they have fallen behind in rent and his ex wife has the house that he bought when they were married, a job that pays enough money for her to pay all of her bills and live comfortably.
@desiree_apuli (455)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
I think so. Because in the first place it is the responsibility of the father to support his children financially. If there is no threat for them that if they don't pay they will not go to jail so all the father in the world who are irresponsible will not bother to support his children.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
20 Dec 08
Your right Brandy. There are plenty of deadbeat mothers out there as well. They also deserve to go to jail if they do not pay support.
@brandypelland (586)
• United States
20 Dec 08
not just fathers ! there are plenty of deadbeat mothers out there to!
@brandypelland (586)
• United States
24 Dec 08
true thanks so much for all of your thoughts and inputs.
@surveytaker29345 (489)
• United States
17 Dec 08
I do believe that it is right for someone to go to jail for not paying child support. While I say this, I do have some points that I would like to make.
If a person is unable to pay child support because they cannot find a job, I don't think they should be put in jail. I do think they should have to show proff that they were looking for a job and should be assigned someone who might help them find a position.
I think that if jail was not in the picture, many people would not pay child support and many families would be put in a more difficult financial situation because of this.
My opinions might have been different if one of my parents had to pay child support, but they are still married. I'm excited to see what other people think about this topic.