I don't know how to choose!
By Rannran
@Rannran (12)
China
December 17, 2008 9:19pm CST
These days my previous boyfriend get in touch with me.He want to have a fresh start
with me.I don't know what to do.
At frist,I proposed breaking up.Becuse I can't stand my parents'press.They don't support my choose.They think I'm a child,I would be cheated.They told a lot reasons which I can understand.I know they love me,they want to protect me from hurting.So I
choose break up with him.
In fact,I know he love me very much.Even I think I can't find a man who is better for me than him.But I want to follow my mother'words.
Now,I'm a student,he is a worker.I must make a choise.
It's hard for me.But I know I must face it.
5 responses
@sophia1984 (278)
• China
19 Dec 08
I think you'd better follow your parents' suggestion, because in the world there is nobody couldn't love us as our parents. They can't accept your previous boyfriend, they must own their reasons. And you had say, you are only a student now, to be a student study must come first, right?
@wangziwei1116 (21)
• China
19 Dec 08
my opinion is to break up with him .you know you are still a student and your key thing is to study and learn the skills how to survive in this world .this world is so complex and there are so many competitions .Don't say those words that he is the best because there so many people in this world and you still have so many choises .when you went to the society you will find the sky is so huge !
@happyforever (191)
• China
18 Dec 08
Oh, my friend, you must be helpless. As your friend, i really don't know how to do. It's a complicated problem. You told us that you had to be departed with him because of the pressure your parents gave you though you also knew he is a good choice. You are abedient and don't want to make your parents angry. So you choose to obey them and give in. Frankly, several days ago, he sent me a message which said he was still love you and did not want to give up. I promised him to keep the secret, so i did not tell you. Please forgive me. Hehe...
I think you must be carefrlly considered and then make a decision without regret. It's enough. I will be always on your side whatever you choose.
@Rannran (12)
• China
19 Dec 08
Today,he come to my city.Now,he sit behind me.We are goodfriend as usual.He work very hard,maybe he will wait me for a long time.
If I was still single after three years,if he is wait me,I will accept him.
Now I can't accept him for many reasons.I am wait.
Letting nature take its course.
@ihearthim09 (6)
• United States
19 Dec 08
my mom and i fought about my boyfriend for along time...but eventually she got over it....and now my brother hates him, but i told him that my boyfriend wasnt going anywhere anytime soon she he would just have to get over it....the moral of the story is love can endure all things...and what is meant to be will always find a way....if you are a christan read 1st cor. 13:3 and 4
