she hurt me........... is Revenge alright?
By Zerric
@Zerric (72)
India
December 17, 2008 10:08pm CST
now she really hurt me when she left me.......so i'm gonna take revenge....in every possible way i can.......in all the MMORPG's she plays and in whatever way i can do it in rl.....no violence tho.....i'm not that type of guy.....so i'd like ideas....what do you think will really hurt her?
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8 responses
@Deadguy (53)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Best revenge is to move on like losing her didn't matter at all. It'd be funny to attack her MMORPG character, but it shows that she hurt you, and that you're upset and not able to get over her very easily. In other words, she wins because it seems like it's easier for her to walk away from you and kick you to the curb.
If you just move on without looking back, it looks like she's worthless and you couldn't care less. That hurts her more.
A breakup, beleive it or not, hurts both people involved. Regardless of how she seems to be acting, if there were any real feelings, it's not easy. That's why so many people end up together again.. it's a weakness, showing that you can't go on without them.
Best bet? You gotta' pretend like you don't care. It'd be good if she hears that you thought about messing ith her MMORPG character to get back at her, but then realized she's wasted enough of your time already.
That's the best kind of revenge, unless you wanna start a rumor (with your friends only) saying that you didn't really fight to keep her because you knew she wasn't worth keeping. You're kinda' glad she's gone because you didn't want to hurt her feelings or embarrass her. Don't spend too much time with it, just mention it to your friends, and forget about it. Rumors like that will take care of themselves, and you don't want to be seen spending any "extra time" to get back at her.
Don't explain WHY.. don't lie about things like calling her a liar/ cheater/ whatever, because then you look like a whiney chump when the truth comes out.. just say you're actually glad it happened because you were kinda looking for a way to dump her without hurting her feelings... you KNEW ya'll couldn't stay together much longer because of the way she is, and that's it.
Good luck, I know it sucks, but any other kind of revenge won't make you feel any better and it'll just make you look like a lovesick puppy dog that's lost it's master. You don't wanna get played like that.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 Apr 09
do you really think that revenge will make you feel better, that revenge will make you a better person? no no... you will feel better for about a second but will even be more hurt seeing how bad a person you have made her make out of yourself. you are just adding yourself more injury. if you are hurt, heal your wound, mend it in all other possible way but getting back at the person. nature has its own way... its called karma. :)
@Nisha_Verghese (551)
• India
30 Dec 08
Yeah sure dude, go ahead and hurt her but can u give a guarantee that by doing so, your hurt would go away?? If revenge was a good solution, then dont think the world would be a safe place to live in!! by hurting her back, neither are you gonna get her back,nor are you gonna feel any better... try moving on... at this point , my advice might seem trivial to you, but trust me, it works... bitterness never helped anyone.. just think of it in this way - she didnt know how much you were worth and she lost a diamond when she went searching for pebbles... thats all... and besides, there are always other fish in the sea.. :)
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
18 Dec 08
Trust me revenge will not make you feel any better, I think the best kind of revenge is to move and truely be happy with your life. That is the best and ultimate revenge especially when she finds out how quickly you moved on and how over her you really are. Just keep yourself busy so you don't think about her all the time and soon you will start to get over her and give yourself a chance to be happy again. It is not the end of the world even I know it may feel that way but time does heal all wounds. Just give yourself some time but in the mean time do the things that make you happy and you will feel much better about yourself rather than resorting to some low tactic that you may end up regretting because you were not thinking straight in the spur of the moment. Be patient and good to yourself, all will be right in your world sooner than you think my friend.
@johnnylee (27)
• Singapore
18 Dec 08
Why spend time on revenge? You won't gain any.
It will be more well spent in other area.
Life is short and time is limited.
Spend time wisely.