how can i try to love her?

dude, if you are sure of your love for her then dont even try to force yourself to love her. Just tell it wont work out.

Hi,if i was your girl friend,i couldn't agree to marry you immediately.Because,i was too young to have a own family.However,if i really love you so much even to die,i believe i can do anything for you!Love is not asking but giving. You are only 30,still so young to marry,why not try to earn more money first that you are able to offer her a cosy life? Nice to meet you!

Hi there! Well, if you're not sure that you love her, I guess you should tell her the truth. If you will go on with your relationship with her, it will be unfair for both of you. Because you will be depriving both of you of real happiness and the true essence of loving and being loved. I hope that you will find the courage to tell her the truth. There's no easy way out of any relationship and it is always better to be honest. It will save the respect that she have for you. Sugarcoating the truth will only lead to confusion and more pain.

Hmm, do you meet her b4? Age is not a problem to love each other. Between, what I wanna say is, internet love is not that real, if both of you agree, ask out for a drinks and chatting, get to know more about each other. After a few days you 2 to be together, if still you 2 love each other, then you 2 can continue it. If not...haha..you know what to do =)

if your not sure if you love her then its really not right to lead her on....you dont choose who you love it just happens...there is no possible way you can make yourself love her....and just bc you are 30 doesnt mean you have to have a family right now....my friend is 33 and she still doesnt have a family of her own