getting married
@bigman_6969_2005 (125)
United States
December 18, 2008 1:22am CST
Ok i have a friend that is about to get married to this guy that her cousin seet her up with and they had only talked on the phone twice and meet in person for the first time this last weekend and they were engaged on the first night of talking to each other and i think that they are moving way to quick. me and a couple of my other friends have tried to talk her out of it because she dont really know this guy and she has only meet him once and she has been up there for a week and we all had planned to hang out the other day and she said that her man was going to fix her car for her and i called them and asked them what was wrong with the car only cause i know what is wrong with the car personally cause i have been in it recently and neither one of them could tell me what is wrong with it so i know that they are lying right there. would i be wrong to go and talk to her parents about it cause they dont know about it yet? thanks for reading this and responding happy holidays
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@bigman_6969_2005 (125)
• United States
18 Dec 08
thank you for saying that and responding so quickly me and my friends feel the same way you do and we will more then likely go and talk to her parents thanks for the advice bigman
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@FabHairWeave (197)
• United States
18 Dec 08
They are absolutely moving quickly. It's one thing to move in but another to bind themselves by law. I think you should bring it to the attention of someone she will listen to because this is crazy. Actually just reckless and ridiculous. Good luck.
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@bigman_6969_2005 (125)
• United States
18 Dec 08
THANK YOU at least some one else besides a couple of my friends thinks so also and thank you for responding bigman
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@onlydia (2808)
• United States
18 Dec 08
Try to tell her to go for a long engagement as that mite work. Her cousin knows him so he mite not be to bad. And no let her tell her parents. Unless she is like 17 or something. Maybe she just wanted to spend time with just him and wanted to be alone. You know things change when someone gets a partner in life. Even a Man/woman you know that. Give it sometime and see where it goes. Your friend onlydia
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Talking to your friend's parents about her situation i guess would create a greater misunderstanding between you and your friend. Maybe the best thing you could do right now is to keep on reminding her about the consequences that she might face when she marry this guy. keep on talking to her give her your unsolicited advice, who knows by your words you might change her mind.
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@bigman_6969_2005 (125)
• United States
18 Dec 08
thank you for responding to my discussion. i will take in to mind that i will just keep trying to talk to her thanks again bigman
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