you saw your husband/boyfriend embracing his ex-girlfriend.....

Since you asked me how I would respond, rather than how you should respond, consider this reply somewhat subjective: First of all, I would be upset. Immediately following the initial feeling of uneasiness would be the urge to eviscerate both parties. Prior to this would be the actual act of eviscerating both parties, at which point the situation would become rather complicated for all involved. Provided the act of disemboweling both my husband/boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend had succeeded in killing them, I would then have to decide what to do with the bodies. The obvious solution is lime and a secluded pit, but I am not entirely sure where this decay party would take place. I will have to consider it, and if the situation ever presents itself, I will make sure to get back to you. Hope this helps!!

that's tough but i actually had a first-hand experience on it. it just so happens that my boyfriend's ex is a mutual firend of ours and quite instrumental in bringing us together. the last time i saw them share an embrace was after the 3 of us had dinner together. one of the most awkward moments in my life. i kinda pretended it was ok, when it's not really deep inside. there was a tiny stab of jealousy back then because my boyfriend and i only got together a few months before that meeting. so it was uncomfortable as hell... since all throughout dinner, my boyfriend and i couldn't keep our hands off each other (like most new couples back then) and afterwards we took turns and embraced his ex when we said our goodbyes. and then later i found out that his ex was trying to get back to him while we were still so obviously together, my boyfriend and i. anyway, i tried to put to the past since it was almost 3 years ago when it happened. and my boyfriend and i are still together.

i would straight go for his throat... i would take a dagger and stab him right in his heart..... the nerve of him to something like that..... :P relax!! im just kididng.... well first of all my boyfriend would never do anything like that ever.... cos he knows my anger very well..... :P but incase he does..... i would not say anything at that time.... but wait for us to get back home..... and once alone i would ask him very casually why did he embrace her when a handshake would have been enough? if he says he dint realise it that moment and that he is is sorry for his actions then i would go ahead and forgive him on one condition that he never would do such a silly thing ever again..... and if he answers me way too cooly for such a hot matter then i wouldnt say anything but decide to give it back to him rather.... the way he did.... its like they say what goes around comes around.... karma!! i have many friends who are mostly boys and so i would go around hugging all of them too until he realises his mistake and comes and says sorry to me..... and then i would act like he did....cool and composed like i dint care at all.... but if he doesnt come around and apologise and doesnt even care about me going and hugging all my friends then i would rather break up.... why would i waste my time with such a guy who isnt bothered about me at all ... right?

I'd make sure they would see me and know that I saw them. Then I'd ask what was going on and what's with the hug. Of course, I'm sure they'd give all the reasons and excuses in the world. I would talk to my husband/boyfriend in private and tell him how hurt I was with what I saw. Even if it meant nothing, he should've been more conscious about doing THAT with his ex, regardless of it meant something or nothing.

wow! that's tough, i can't imagine seeing my husband embracing with his ex because of all people that i am jealous with, is with his ex girlfriends. Unless if I know that there's nothing malicious I would be confident on that but if you feel that there's is something about that "hug" thingy, I would rather confront my husband, try to talk about that incident, as long as you knew he was not flirting with his ex, it would be find.

hi,,, Well,definitely.. i'll get mad.. i will not ask of any explanation..

Tough question but at the same time an easy one. I have been through this before. My girlfriend is friends with all of her exes so any time she sees them, they hug. No big deal at all. Unless you have issues with trust. You need a good base of trust. Without trust, a relationship is flawed all the time and never lasts. I hope I helped in one way or another.

If you are not too comfortable with it, bring it up to your husband/bf. He has the duty and commitment to address this problem cos you are not feeling comfortable. He cannot simply claim that she is just a friend now, no body can assure that nothign will stark off ffrom there if they continue to be close. In a relationship, it is both parties responsibility to assure each other constantly. If you are not affected by it because you think that there is nothing wrong, then leave it. If it is me, I definitely wont feel comfortable and I wont even let them meet at all.

it;s a big question in my country .cos we dont hug each other often ,except you are in love .so if your hunsban/bf embracing his ex-gf ,it means something must be going on between them ,you should keep alert