How do you feel towards the anti-social? Are you one of them?

Just like me... Actually, I understand what you feel about this type of person because before some of my friends also called me "kill-joy" and I think It's sound the same. Anyway It's a choice right? As you grow with your relatives, friends and co-workers, you will realize that it's not good to stay the same forever..trust me...

Maybe you're just not comfortable about how to deal with people. There's something call introvert. These people are known to keep to themselves and shy away from communities and dealing with people. That's perfectly natural, but there's also a tendency for these people to have 'fears'. Thus, ending up isolated and not really attuned with the world. Or perhaps you're not comfortable about yourself. You're afraid that people would judge you and all. I could say I was an introvert before, but through slowly looking at the world at a better view, I found myself enjoying a lot about the world I'm in. I couldn't say I'm no longer an introvert, I still am, but not all the time. I still love being alone and just doing things without others, but I try to balance it by reaching out to others as well. Try to reach out. Maybe you don't see the benefits of being social for now, but it's very important when you're older. It can give you what you need and opportunities would be broader if you know a lot of people. Sadly, we can't help but need people sooner or later.

I have nothing against anti social people in fact I find them interesting. I might consider myself as one of anti social people. I don't like going to parties but if its just with my friends its okay with me. How do you feel towards people who tend to isolate themselves? That's a good question to ask, honestly I don't know because I'm very private person and it's very rare that I let people get into my world. Online socializing is very helpful for me.

Hi, I think it's perfectly okay. I like to be alone - I'm happy by myself, doing the things I enjoy, like reading, watching TV or going online - all these are really 'lonely' interests. However, I am able to switch when required, especially the nature of my work requires me to be sociable. So I would try to escape any parties, gatherings or trips that are non-official!

hmmmmmmm, no offense but if you are anti social, you are missing a lot in the world girl. being with other people is just part of our lives. you cannot live by your ownself only. you need other people, to grow, to be mature, to meet new friends, to find someone who you can be with and who knows, you can meet the person that you will be pending the rest of your life with. nothing is for sure though. me, though i am shy sometimes, i try myself to be with other people and meet some new friends. its good to be alone sometimes but its better to have many friends or people that you know. cheer up! meet some new friends! =)

well i sometimes consider myself anti-social. i dont really like to meet new people. and i dont go see my friends exept for like once every week or two. i just dont feel like going out there and seeing any of them. i dont know maybe it them too they dont call me or anything so maybe its for the better.

[i]I phyrethyme, I wonder why you will not enjoy to be with your friends once in awhile? ANyway, it's none of my business but I haven't meet anyone who is like that before... I guess I will just support if ever I have a friend like you, whatever makes you happy, I will understand that.... I am both..I can stay in our house doing something, helping with my Mom when I was single, cleaning the house or just sleeping but I can also go out with friends and enjoy with them...I am flexible but I am quite choosy about friends and whom to mingle![/i]

Yeah, well im Bi-polar, so i get where your coming from. I mean i have my happy outgoing days but others, i just like to remain within myself. If i have to go to someone elses house, i get uncomfortable, i hate to have to ask to pee.

I'm a little similar with you. When I was studing at college,we share a dorm 8 members, so you can never have space of yourself. My best friend is a girl who likes being accompanied by others all time, having meals ,taking classes or shopping , etc. sometimes I felt boring with other people,so I would choode one day in a week to be absolutely alone, without being toghter with anyone I know.It makes me feel comfortable. I think every one has this aspect, it's not that a big deal. However, I would like to say maybe you should try to enjoy the time with your friend. Since you are friends, you must have something in common,and you would find the joy of gathering with your friends.

sometimes i feel i'm anti-social.

Anti-social...it's okay with me. My classmates have also branded me an anti-social once but my personality is in between, I can be an anti-social one second then miss happy social person the next. I'm an unstable nutcase, I guess. ^^ So for me, there's nothing wrong if you don't want to mingle with other people but after reading your post, I feel that while I can be anti-social, I can also be like the person who keeps bugging you with all that cheesy stuff...Again, unstable nutcase here!!! ^^ Hmmm...am I one of the anti-socials??? For now, I'm a half.