Now know the reason why she said...

I'm sure it's not always another guy. There may be something about you that bugs her. Or she just doesn't have the right kind of feelings for you. It isn't always about another guy.

I'm confused...people need to be honest with their romantic partners. The truth is, you could be in your ex's position one of these days, and the only thing that will salvage this situation is respect. A girl needs to consider that before she expects a caring partner to go away like a kicked dog.

Not necessarily. Women can break it off without having another lover.There could be many other reasons why and not all can be spoken. Does this make sense.In brief, she wants out but it doesn't have to be another person she is running to.Stop looking for the reason, it can drive you more crazy than you already are.She won't tell you so you will never know.Try not to think about it. are you still hanging out with your friends? I hope so. Take Care. Talk to you soon.

I'd say its not true every time. I know that i said it when i'd fallen out of love but i didnt have someone else that i was seeing. I didnt want to hurt the guy's feelings so i didnt want to tell him "i dont love you anymore" but in someways i should have just hurt his feelings and told him that because for almost 2 years he tried to either keep me or when i finally started seeing someone else he was trying to get me back. In the end i stopped all contact on my part with him. I still get emails from him but i dont respond - this is 6 years AFTER breaking up with him and he's never started dating anyone else and his emails and messages are still the tone of someone who thinks i should be his gf. He doesnt know my phone number or my address but if he did in alot of ways id be worried because he comes off as very stalker like now.

Its that OR she's just testing you. I would like to point out that I really don't know what to answer. It is a case to case basis. Its not only the words said, but how the girl said the words. Am I making any sense? You should feel how she meant when she told that to you. A "pause" would definitely mean a thing. Or a "wink". A "sigh". A "fidget" once in a while. A "deep exhale". I'm guessing... she's just testing you. So I say this to you again, "cheer up"!

hey ya its difficult to deal with realy..but this happens with galz also :P...boys give same stupid resons to get out of relationship..

I think there is always an exemption to the rule. Sometimes when a girl is so hurt already it also reached to the point that she just let go. Then hurting more. Sometimes she rather just finished the pain and move on. It's not always there is a third party around. Well it can be also fallen out of love, or to finish the problems between them, cause she knows that it wont work out, a one sided sort of a relationship. Another reason again, when you waited for too long, and nothing change, the more hurts, the more pains, and she should just keep herself all by her self not telling the reason.She just wanna let go. I think relationship is a private thing.Were not perfect, only time can tell, and it will come out but kind a too late the reason why. Good night!

This thing and saying, does not just comes from a gal.. A guy will say the same thing too.. Well, that's love, and love does not come easy.. For the saying, 'i dont know, it just happened', is already a big hint that she had fallen for someone else unknowingly.. But then again, u cant fault her too, as she herself din expect that to happen either.. Maybe, the other guy is able to give her something which u cant, and thus she can fall for him instead.. No point in getting upset about it anymore, and even if u were to confront her, she will most likely tell u, they are together after u and her broke up.. Thus, u will never know the real time and u need not even need to know as it's all in the past..

I guess maybe thats just the way they would want to say it so that you might not get hurt that much. I guess it would really hurt if she would really say the truth as compared to that one. I guess shes just trying to be a little kind so that you wont get offended that much. I think people also have their own way of saying those things, they may say it indirectly or nicely but i think their main intention is not to hurt you that much.

If those are the words coming out of the lips of a woman you love, then it is very clear that there is no using pursuing her to keep the relationship. She can't explain because she finds no reason to get out of the relationship except for one thing: "She simply has fallen out of love.

Yes, I think when a girl says they don't know, it's quite likely they have someone else. Also, when they say, '... it's not you, it's me.' These things sound very much like a copout! I very much hope your girlfriend hasn't found someone else - if she has, you deserve much better than that, and I hope the girl of your dreams finds you very soon.

It could be that the girl was not matured enough that she was being insensitive to her partner's feelings, and she thought that it's ok if she ends the relationship that way. It doesn't mean that she's involved with another man. I was able to say that, coz when I was still young, I have done that to my ex. I just told him that I would like us to break up but there was no third party involved.

i am also like you dear i also got double crossed my gf in my case she does not even replied to my message s o at the last i just sent him a very emotional message and she has not even replied to my messages hope she replies and depicts what realy happened and after that i just had no faith in girls and you tell dude whats your story