Have you not tried Facebook?

yes but I deleted my account there because it's not a user friendly site.

i so agree with you. i have stopped loggin in to my friendster account ever since i started Facebook. What i like about facebook is that you are able to limit view to certain people (who are already your friends) and totally deny access to others. I know Friendster does this too but they also have this function (that can be disabled) that allows you or others to see who has visited your profile. Another thing about friendster is you have strangers private messaging you to ask to be your friend. I don't really have that much a problem in facebook. and of course, unlike frienster, i don't have to sign up for a blog just to be able to upload pictures.