how to start a conversation with a new friend??
By smaz007
@smaz007 (17)
India
December 19, 2008 6:28am CST
hey guys i love to make new frnds and i know that most of us really likes to have new frnds but dont know how to start a conversation genrally we start a conversation with "hi" and "hello" and after that we started talking about us but this is not the correct way of interacting with other the best thing to have a good impression on others is to talk about "you" and "yourself" instead of "i" or "myself".and according to me there is no one really interested in you except your family and your boyfrnd/girlfrnd.everybody wants to talk about himself and if u also start talking about themselves then automatically they'll become interested in you and started liking you.so stop thinking about yourself,think about others.
well if you have any other way then share with us.
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@MichaelJay (1100)
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19 Dec 08
Maybe it's best to start talking about a mutual interest - for instance if you're at a club or gig you could comment on the music.
'Do you like this band/song/type of music?'
If you are outdoors comment on the marvellous view - it only takes a couple of words to beak the ice.
I make a point of trying to speak to one stranger a day, whether it's in a store, or the street, or in a professional situation.
I don't have any motive, I'm not hitting on them, it's just good practice.
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@Seyduna (129)
• Turkey
25 Dec 08
I think most of the time a conversation is almost impossible if you are trying to start it on internet because conditions are not real as it is in daily life.
To speak generally if you lose if you always talk about yourself, you have to show her/him with your words that you care for her/him
