True Love

NO of course. If you love someone indeed, he/she is the only only person you want to stay with. If not, that's not TRUE love.

Yes, I agree with You. Well, actually it IS POSSIBLE to be with someone and think about other, but it is not ACCEPTABLE thing to do and it does not show that those two are have A TRUE LOVE. When I was together with one man, I never got over the feeling that he thinks about his ex. I felt his thoughts about her all around him. Even every time when I looked at his tattoo, I wondered if it carries the meaning of his first LOVE. Of course, our relationship did not continue. I totally support those relationships where everything is honest and spoked over. Than TRUE LOVE can start there. Then children may appear in this family and a happy and long lasting marriage can start. Unfortunately nowadays people tend to build relationships (5 years, 10 years, all life long) BUT without a marriage; others fall into this: too many partner changes- like they are trying to find their LOVE but simply feels NOTHING towards none of them, etc. I fear where and how this world will end up with all this. :(

I totally agree. You cannot be in love with someone if you are having thoughts of being with someone else. When you say you love someone you are supposed to mean it not say it to just anyone in hopes of getting into their bed. There was a discussion on here a coupe days ago just like this. it was a guy saying he was married but loves his wifes sister... How can he love her sister if he supposedly loves is wife in my opinion he doesn't love his wife and should do her a favor by leaving her now before he cheats on her. Thank you for the great topic Hugs StrawberryKisses

For me to love somebody truely means you have to be loyal and honest to the one you love. That by all means you're going to avoid any circumstances that will allow you to becom dishonest to your partner.