I have two choice~~
@christina1989 (462)
China
December 20, 2008 2:59am CST
he is a soldier,also a friend of mine......
several days ago,he told me he love me......
maybe,i have a little bit love against him.
now,i can choose to be his girlfriend,i also can choose to reject him
i know he treat love earnstly....he want me to be his wife
but i just want to be his girlfriend.because i am still young.
i also don't want to hurt him......
shall i choose which one?
3 responses
@semperfi625 (14)
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
I am a wife of a soldier. If you love him why not give him a chance, be his girlfriend and know him better, and if you think he is the one for you marry him in the right time or in the right age you think is the best to get married. But some soldier are impatient and they can find another girl easily. But if he really loves you he will stick to you no matter what. Go girl!
@christina1989 (462)
• China
21 Dec 08
but i doubt if i can endure the lonely.he cannot alway stay with me.
@headofaxes (45)
• Australia
21 Dec 08
If he does love you then give him a chance. Watch The Unit or Army Wives to try to cope with the seperation!!!
@shonali (1286)
• India
20 Dec 08
well i dont see whats the problem here girl....
you ahve it pretty solved out in your head.....
you love him....
but right now you dont want to think of anything serious liek marriage and stuff as you think you are very young....so if you think he is mature enough then why dont you sit down with him and talk to him regarding this?
tell him that you really like him and wouldnt mind dating him at all but the thing about marriage defiantely has to come after a couple of years....
if he is willing to wait then go for the relationship.....
plus i think army men are absolutely gorgeous.... :P
@shonali (1286)
• India
21 Dec 08
oh for a minute there i couldnt understand what you were trying to say but yeah i got it now alright.... you know there are many times i really sit down and listen to people younger than me or rather even kids at times and they probably say things in their innocence but cos of that ability in them they say things right to the point where it could be harsh at times but it is the whole truth and thats how life is actually....but the ego of some people doesnt allow them to listen to younger ones advices.... sad!! but true!!
