Do you pay for your girlfriend?
By lchiat
@lchiat (1070)
Malaysia
December 20, 2008 8:56am CST
Hi all my friends here. Everytime you go for a breakfast, lunch or dinner with your girlfriend. Do you pay for her or american pay? For me most of it i pay for my girlfriend. But sometime she pay for me too. But if go shopping like buying clothes or bags she pay by her own. But i buy some for her too. I didnt pay all of it. So how about you?
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3 responses
@trickjoseph (197)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
I pay for my girlfriend it is because I got a job and she does not. But there are times that she is the one paying for me. We don't really think about whose going to pay the bills. Give and take relationship.
@AnakSuNamun (2084)
• United States
20 Dec 08
I do not have a girlfriend and I'm straight but I think it's proper when a man pays for dinners. Not all the time,though-women should not depend on mens money. There are situations when a guy forgets his wallet or is broke etc-I have no problem picking up the tab(if I can afford it).
You should have a mutual budget when you're married,then it doesn;t matter who pays for what. But if it's a boyfriend-he can pay for the food but I will my own clothing,cosmetics and other things.
It's called "To go dutch" when a couple pays their dinner checks separately.
@piya84 (2580)
• India
20 Dec 08
well it depends upon both parties and their financail situation.If ur girlfrend/boyfrend dont have job how come they are goint to pay?I think these things shud b on mutual understanding.Both parties shud spend according to time.If one dont have much budget then i think there are lots of cheap options out there..its nt imp how much u spend..ur emotions behind spending are important.If someonje is counting love on the basis on how much u are spending on tmen then u need to b careful with such a people.
